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the_man
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 Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 8:07 am Post subject: attempting to build attraction and improve HV |
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ok i have talked to this girl online and on the phone. she has proposed meeting up a few times and i know already that she wants to meet with me and we would have a good time. however i wanted to build attraction and try to have her pursue me. she also lives over an hour away and so i want to make sure it will be worth my while, and hopefully she will take the time to come to see me.i was improvising while talking to her and i didnt have any set negs or anything like that, so its not perfect but i was trying to give her some negs and throw her some "disqualifiers" such as saying she was "too lil" (shes a couple years younger,and petite) as well as saying that she wasnt my type. i think i did ok, but i need some help now as to what to do next, as you will see.---- her name has been taken out and i kept mine in
:heyy
me: wassup
: nm u
me: just got home
: im sry i didnt call u yesterday
(note- i shrugged that off, so i didnt care either way)
me: wat did u do yesterday
: nothing at all
: nd u
me: i watched a movie
: wht did u do today?
me: worked a little and chilled at cyle & britneys crib
: sounds like fun i went to a few haunted houses
me: were u scared
: when i saw the clowns hellz ya but everything else was lame
me: u scared of clowns
: terrified
me: who was protecting u from them
: no one
: y?
me: thats too bad
me: yea that clown could scoop u up and carry u away n his clown shoe if u aint careful
: lol
: nd bout my hight to\
me: wats that 4 foot - nothin
: im 5' 3 not 4 sumthing
me: yea rite u sure
: i swear i was just at the docs nd they said i was 5' 3
: y do u keep saying im a lil gurl?
me: cuz u r
: no
me: u wanna come 2 my haunted house
: sure
: so r u gonna stop talking bout clowns
me: u brought it up
: u kept going on and on and on bout them
me: its ok i wont let the clowns hurt u
: lol
: i wish u couldve went wit me
me: i talk about watever comes 2 my head and u dont seem 2 have nething 2 talk about
: well wht do u wanna talk bout then?
me:how u never do nething bad
: u act like im a goody goody
me: u conform 2 all the rules of authority
: no i don u can ask all of my friends
me: wat would they say
: idk y don u ask them
me: there prolly n bed rite now and gettin ready 4 sunday school
: or i can give u all of my friends num u can call them one by one
me: whos your friend over there
: her name is brandie y
me: cuz u said u had a friend over
: yea
me: so i was bein polite and askin her name
: oic
: so.....
me: youre a nice girl but i dont think youre my type
: ok
: i wasnt looking for a guy online ne way
: ur rly not my type either
: well im gonna go cya
me: l8er
: w/e
the end... ok i know a lot of that convo was kinda random, but neways at the end she didnt take it well when i said she wasnt my type. she didnt try to qualify herself to me or ask why she wasnt my type.she was obvously defensive at the end,then she signed off. so, what should i say next time?
thanks
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xxIcexx
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| ouch, that was not to smooth, you held the clown convo too long and kept calling her a little girl too much, and you stretched that topic too, then you failed to convey anything interesting about yourself, and on the internet, not everyone is out looking for someone, so by disqualifying her as a potential mate, you disqualified yourself from her |
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