Well?
What do you think?
Cos it happens to all of us.
You're going along thinking things are getting better. You learn a few new ideas. You try out a few new things. And you feel like with this new wisdom, the world is yours for the taking.
Then a few weeks go by, and there's no women. A few months go by, and there's no great sex. Maybe a year goes by, and there's no PASSION in your life to get you off of your lazy ass and DOING the things you spend all your time TALKING about?
Why? I mean, you want it, right? You envy what other men have and your ego is damn sure screaming at you to do something about it, right?
You want the money. You want the power. You want the women.
It's OK to admit. We're all at least a litte "Scarface." We're men. Testosterone informs our every decision and that desire to get out and conquer and rule and break shit and take what we want will always be there.
But when it is stifled and crushed... it can turn demonic.
The key to your life, my friend, is not what you know. It is not what you think. And it sure as hell ain't what kind of advice you get from me or other self-righteous egomaniancs who want you to tell them just how cool they are for having this whole "game" figured out.
The only thing that matters is what you DO.
So today, start DOING some shit. Here's a plan that might make it easier to figure out where to start.
Without direction you cannot be strong. You cannot be grounded. You cannot be confident.
What you will be is... A wussy.
A man needs purpose and a man needs passion. So how do you find it?
Make 3 lists. Just freestyle and don't overthink them. Do, don't think. Ready?
1. List all the things you are good at.
2. List all the things you enjoy doing, and get a sense of accomplishment from.
3. List all the hings you could find a way to do almost everyday, if just for 5 minutes.
Now we get to bring some mathematics to this shit!
Find the intersection of these 3 data sets. See where these things overlap, and just a few of all the options pop out at you?
The one thing that fits all three categories, and grabs you by the short ones... that is your PASSION.
It may not be your passion forever. In fact, it will change all the time, so keep this exercise in mind.
The point of a man is not to find his single "special purpose," ala Navin Johnson in "The Jerk" (we all already know that special purpose, and if you don't know what I'm talking about... for shame, dude. You've never seen "The Jerk?" And you call yourself a man? For. Shame).
The point is to find by GOING where we need to GO.
You go. You go hard and you go with intent. And you keep your wits about you so that you can change direction at any time when that time comes.
So start going now. Find one thing.
Find one thing that's close... but not PERFECT.
Did I mention the need to be "perfect" in his choices is another hallmark of the total and complete pussy? He's so afraid of being judged for doing something wrong (by friends, family, and most of all, total strangers who really wouldn't give him a drop of piss if he were on fire), that he refuses to make any change at all.
He's the little kid who shits his pants and stands around crying, waiting for someone else to come along and clean him up instead of taking care of the shit himself.
So let's be totally graphic and clear right now, OK? Cos I'm not your friend. I'm not your buddy. I'm not your momma here to wipe your tears and tell you that you're a special little bear.
I'm a man who's been everywhere you think you find yourself alone and found a way through it, and if you want it, I can help you. But only if you try.
So here goes:
Are you standing in a pile of shit right now, and crying your eyes out like a little bitch about it?
Or are you DOING something to change it?
We all end up in the shit at some point. So you'd better get used to getting yourself out of it, cos that's never gonna change.
A man is measured not by how he handles success, but by how he handles adversity. So find the thing that challenges you every day, and DO IT.
Do it everyday and you will start to get a massive boost of testosterone.
You will become more strong. More grounded. More confident.
Every day, more a man.
And less a wussy.
Kill your inner wuss with passion and purpose. Start now.
And if you really want to commit, make yourself accountable to other men by declaring your purpose on the LVo3 forum:
http://www.websitetoolbox.com/tool/post ... id=3317275
Move. Your. Ass.
Sean
Post. Script.
Sometimes you gotta do whatever it takes.
I'll be honest. I would rather have You call me a fraud and a cheat and a liar and sell me out in public AND find a way, any way, to get some cool chicks in your life (as long as it's done without intentionally hurting anyone)...
than to keep reading, thinking about how great everything is... without having any women at all.
I mean, fuck. if I thought TOMORROW that RS fucking D really did have something great to offer me on how to get happier with women, and it involved asking 100 girls in a row if I'd look better if I dyed my hair black... and I FELT it for real...
i'd be a dumb-ass motherfucker standing on a street corner bugging girls right now.
(don't knock it before you try it. ever been to a party? that's supposed to be a marathon of "pickup." so if you want it, ask yourself... "what are you prepared to do?")
What. Are You. Prepared. To DO?
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