Recently, I moved back to my hometown (unfortunately I had to move back in with my parents) after living in a couple of different cities over the past two years. If I want to go ANYWHERE I have to drive. The closest bar is 45 minutes away by car and there is no public transit.
I feel in the past few months I've really improved on my inner game, seeing as I have much more time now to work on myself, but I am constantly bored out of my mind with nothing to do and nowhere to go. My social circle has shrunk to my friend who is about to have a kid, who lives an hour away, and my brother who doesn't give a damn about game.

Pretty much all of the people I used to know here have either moved away, or have become people I don't want to associate myself with.
That being said, I have a few things I could really use some insight on.

First, what are some suggestions of places I could go sarging. I do work in a much larger town 5 days a week. It has a mall, but it's usually only populated by the odd young teen and the elderly.
What are some good places for day game?

Second, what are some unique "date" ideas for someone in my position. I can never think of something that is worth doing. There are a few women I know here, who I used to be closer with, who I would like to show how much I've changed! But I feel even after I have built what seems to be enough comfort for a meetup (which a couple of them have agreed to) when it comes to the point were we make the plans on what we're going to do, I can't think of anything, and end up saying something AFC like "lets just hangout and watch a movie." And then all the comfort I've built is lost, and the girl flakes. One of these girls is someone I used to hangout with often! Another is someone who had admitted to having a crush on me when I was in highschool!

This has really been bothering me, especially the past few days, and I fear it is going to start counteracting the progress I've made!

Any input anyone can give is appreciated!
WC

It really doesn't matter what you do, as long as you make the interaction fun and interesting. Remember that if you are in BFE she is as well so anything outside of the norm is an improvement.

I think by being indecisive you are comming accross as Beta because an Alpha would make any situation fun for himself and everyone around him.

Just make a decision on what you want to to and stick with it, if she does not want to do it lightly neg or tease her about it and then have a secondary plan already in your head so YOU are making the decision for what ya'll will do.

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I never looked at it like that.
So would you say it's better to try out some new interesting date ideas, or use the norm (dinner, movies) and make it more fun?

Thanks for all your advice man! It's really helping.
WC

Crypto is dead on.

No matter what you do, your frame is one of confidence, that you've got this shit on lock.

Personally, I prefer to go a different route than other guys for a date. Find other ideas. Are there parks anywhere nearby somewhat secluded? Great place for an 'inpromptu' bottle of wine! ....and yeah, you can make it seem like a spur of the moment idea - it's an easy set up.

The biggest problems with small towns is that you can take a shit and the neighbor a block over knows what color it was 10 minutes later... Be a silent assassin if you're planning to game hardcore.

Best,

RR

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There are a few small parks withing driving distance. I literally have to drive anywhere I want to go.
The park closest to me is a small little park, with a public swimming area, but it has some nice secluded walking trails that lead off of it.

I will for sure keep my shit tight when it comes "word of mouth!"
But then again, if you leave them better than they were when you found them, shouldn't they have nothing but good things to say?
WC

Okay bro. Get hold of the free Google Earth and check the places in your hometown as well as the places in the larger town and those in between from Small Town A to Larger Town B.

Check the aerial photography and/or satellite imagery for places with the most number of cars at certain times of the day. With this, you'll have a clear picture over the places where a lot of people go to.

PUA Macro-Routines: Geographic Sarging

One technique is to first identify banks from Small Town A to Larger Town B. Next, inquire on how to open savings accounts in at least 5 banks. Check out where the beautiful tellers or bank officers are. After your selection strategy, open savings accounts in banks where the beautiful tellers or bank officers work and disregard the rest with the uglies.

Every week or every other week, make a deposit in 1 or 2 banks and then sarge everyone for 1 or 2 minutes until you complete your transaction. You're building social proof via propinquity. This will help you a lot in your f-closes.

You can withdraw money from one bank and deposit that money in another bank. You can have a withdrawal-deposit routine so you can sarge chicks (both bank employees and clients) from bank to bank on a rotation basis.

Another technique is to identify all schools in your area so you can check out the teachers, school officers and/or single moms or married moms who bring their kids to school. Make it look like you're scouting a school for your niece or nephew. Take note of the diners and restaurants near these schools. Eat your lunch, breakfast or dinner at these diners during targeted times of the day or night. Have a rotation routine so you can visit several school areas on a regular basis.

You can also do the same sarging rotation pattern strategy for Hair Salons, Supermarkets, Dentists, Drug Stores, Bowling Alleys, and so on. Just make sure that you choose places where you'll save a lot of time.

How to Save Time in Your Geographic Sarges

Say, in going to your hometown, take a brief stop to a diner and get some coffee. Sarge for some 2 to 3 minutes and then go. The next week that you travel to the larger town, take another brief stop to the same diner, get some coffee and sarge again for some 2 to 3 minutes. After some 4 or 5 instances of doing this, you'll have built enough social proof through propinquity. You can now easily sarge HB diner customers or the waitresses there.

If you only get your groceries twice a month, make that four times a month. Focus on one supermarket first to build propinquity. After 4 or 5 instances, focus on another supermarket and then go back to your first supermarket. Keep your propinquity building sarges under 4 minutes per woman. You can devote longer times for your f-closes once you have built enough comfort via propinquity. Scarcity and absence are great tools for sarging. These techniques also save you time while invading the mind space of your target HBs.

They,ll think, "What happened to that guy? He's not coming here anymore. I wonder what he's up to." When you show up again and your HBs ask you on your whereabouts just say, "Secret." This will trigger their intrusive thinking some more. You win when you get into girl's minds.

Moreover, when you go back to focus on your first supermarket, the HBs in your second supermarket will likewise go into intrusive thinking mode once they notice your absence. This rotation strategy is field tested and the reactions and questions from HBs are the same. They'll miss you especially if you give off a fun and playful vibe; not the slapstick, Charlie Chaplin vibe or a Chris Tucker loudmouth vibe but more along the lines of a Will Smith or Adam Sandler vibe.
Get Out of the Date Mold

Take off the "date" mindset from your vocabulary. Just say, "Let's go." Take the girl to a diner, your place, or anywhere where you feel like it as long as you're having fun. Set it up like it's some random, unplanned event (but of course you planned it, just don't let the girl know you planned it). Checkout Cowboy's (RR) Lay Reports for some ideas.

The key is to make your hangouts seem random and triggered by spur of the moment.

You can get away with some things you never imagined as long as you try. I've tried once something like, "Let's do some laundry in my place and wash some clothes." With playful delivery, you can get the girl to bounce to your place. Take this example with a grain of salt though since I've had only tried it once. If it works for me at least 3 times, I'll let you know.

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Outstanding!
So much to work with there! Ahaha.
I'll keep you posted on how these things are coming as I progress!

WC

By the way, the propinquity strategies described above assumes that you still don't have enough in-field sarging experiences and pick up skills for you to have a same day lay. However, once you've built enough experiences and skills, then you can go for the same day lay.

Honestly, my best record so far with a stranger chick is around 3 hours for a same day lay. I believe though that with more in-field experiences and improved pick up skills, you and I can also pull those 1-hour, 30-minute, or 10-minute pulls for the same day lay. It may take some time and we've got to work hard on it to make these things possible, hokey?

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