This happens all the time, the weekend comes, some of your friends dont want to go out... what do you do?

Do you stay home using your tears as lube?

Watching the notebook....contemplating suicide and being forever alone?

Or do you man up, put on your tom cruise jacket and hit the fucking club by yourself...make new friends on the line and end up pulling a sexy ass girl who will fallatio you for the rest of the year?

Man up and get it done soldier, this is your movie, your life, make it epic

here's how to do that

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z96_8p9 ... e=youtu.be

Now tell me, when was the last time you went out alone?
Did you have fun?

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here's the link to the video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z96_8p9 ... g9YDyq9y8A

sorry guys

and thanks for the heads up

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I prefer to go out to approach alone. If you haven't got any skilled wingman, you should go out alone. I think It is more effective to go out and approach alone because It get raise producing of adrenalin. You know It can be expensive to produce adrenalin trying extreme sports
If you go out to approach alone more frequently, you will consider that high level of adrenalin causes addiction.

First of all I liked your Youtube channel, good content!
What is your strategy for moving around the club when you go alone?
Are you looking to make friends w/ everyone or going straight into a set with the first girl you see?

Haha good, im glad your doing it ! Going out Alone takes a good amount of balls and mental discipline if you want to succeed. Keep up the good work.
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Ok so here's the deal, i live in a city where theres 2 types of clubs/bars
Theres the turisty bars/clubs and theres the locals bars/clubs

If is a tursity place, i suggest opening most of the girls because they will be looking for a good time so is very easy to just socialize with every girl you like most of them will want to meet a cool guy.

Now in the "locals" area where is people from your own city, most girls will be in groups/closed groups and will not be very comfortable socializing with a complete stranger

In a "locals" scenario, i recommend going with wingmen so that you can keep the energy up and the vibe well. You want to be bringing the party and not leeching off the energy of their group, you want to bring new fresh energy. Now, alone is possible to do this, of course, and by all means do it if you dont have wingmen. But i recommend making friends who are just good vibes, they dont have to be good with girls, thats your job, they just have to be positive people who can act normal and have fun. That positive energy will help you open almost any girl because she will sense the good vibes emanating from you.

This is how i socialize/meet/ and date local women.

Going out solo is a skill we must all possess though but it shouldnt be a long term thing
Long term you want to build a big social circle, you want to be that guy who has good friends , and when you're out its easier to meet girls that way if you know how to play.

But in the turisty places of my city, i love going out alone because most nights i do that and approach i end up hooking up with a girl , very high percentage due to the fact they are visiting and just want a good time.

So my point is and the answer to your question is

In a turisty place, approach any girl you see and go for it

in a Local place, make friends/bring friends, vibe, and when you feel good in your body - start opening sets and have fun

make sense?

at no point during any of these natural ways of meeting girls do i feel creepy/act creepy intentionally

Is all smooth/flowing/natural and when i hook a girl she always says "Wow im so happy you approached me" afterwards. Most guys dont have the balls.

Play it right.

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Dtrak,

I enjoy your advice. I'm in Atlanta, but I travel often. When I come to your city we should kick it.

That being said I think he question was really how do you conduct yourself while in those places. Like as soon as you walk through the door you do A, B, C.

When I walk in I step in like I own the place for real. The doorway into the club. I imagine a giant block of ice. I crash through that shit like the Juggernaut. Then I stand there with awesome body language and survey the landscape. The closest girl who noticed my entrance will be looking at me. I walk over and open her up and chat for a few minutes. This is a throw away approach to build my talkative state. As I'm talking to her I'm looking for someone else to talk to. It doesn't matter if it's a man a woman or a group. They should be fairly close. It also doesn't matter if they are looking at me. If they aren't looking at me I simply tap on the shoulder and open. If they aren't up for a quick 30 second to 3 minute friendly conversation and some light kino I just move on to someone else as quickly as possible.

After about 10 minutes I have this playful talkative state the entire night. Then I just keep moving through the entire place opening when I feel like it dancing when I want to. I never stand still by myself sipping on my drink or whatever. You have no idea who is watching you in the club. There are so many eyes on me from the start due to how I go in that I just don't know. The only times I'm stationary is if I'm talking to someone, dancing (alone or with a woman, if you dance alone pay no attention to anyone around you and women will flock around you), or buying a drink. Other than that... It's constant movement.

I'll sometimes go stationary with a 4th situation. I claim territory in the club. If you get a nice spot where you can be seen by everyone and you stand firm, and socialize with the people who come into your territory interesting things happen.

You'll have guys who will try and move you out of your place. (Annoying fucking haters) Just cold shoulder these fools and don't move an inch. They will literally walk up and say say excuse me so they can walk their path through your spot, even though there is space to go around you. Even if there isn't space don't move. make them move someone else. Make sure when your choosing this spot that it makes logistical sense for these assholes to walk around you.

I've even had guys walk up and tell me to move before and I responded with a smile and a cold shoulder.

After dealing with that you'll notice a perimeter of space form around you. This becomes your territory. People will be afraid to get too close because they know you will engage them, and they're nervous, AA. This is where the fun comes in. While maintaining your position you aren't looking to hit on women. Just claim some territory.

Women will begin to hover around you in groups. Some more confident ones will enter into your territory in hopes you will talk to them. A few will attempt to move you out of your spot. A challenge test, don't budge for these women either. After you do an approach or two some non-hater guys start hovering around your territory. They see you engaging these groups of women, or are attracted to the flocks of women that are around you. You can open the guys and then make the guys wing you when you go for the groups of women if they are cool and positive.

This will only work if you stand out in some way. Like wearing a suit in a hood club, or something eye catching so people become aware of the whole thing. It works on a lesser level if you don't peacock, but the more outlandish you look the more powerful this technique becomes. Just don't give off that "weird freak" vibe.

If you walk off to approach or get a drink there is a chance a guy or group of guys will steal your spot. I don't know if this is conscious or subconscious, but they are like vultures. What I do is when I get back to my territory I engage the guys, reposition myself where I stood, and then cold shoulder them if they are assholes. And get back to sipping on my drink and watching the women in the club present themselves to me.

Only claim territory after you've built up your talkative state. Otherwise you will be coming from a weak position, and people will see that. Then you will have a terrible night.

This will only work if you aren't a pussy because people will challenge the fuck out of you.

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Cool dude, thanks, come down here to miami and we'll rock it.

I actually agree 100% with your whole strategy and i can see it working really well. Keep it up.
I work the venue a similar way, but i dont really stress territory much, i'm basically very relaxed most of the time and just amping up the positive fun vibe with my friends/meeting new people/going for my target.

and alot of times i do post up somewere and just wait for girls to hover around me and create a "hub"(instant social circle), thats good, but i guess you seem to have taken a deeper look into what takes place in that situation so thumps for that.

I just personally dont give a shit about the whole "who dominates the territory" thing, but i like the fact you've come up with your own view and strategy which makes alot of sense to me.

The reason i say that is because i like to think of myself as pretty fucking alpha,i rarely ever get challenged by other dudes for turf control, or maybe i havent noticed. I honestly never even thought about turf control, i useually post somewere and work that spot, if is dry i move to another section of the club and work it there.
But now that i think about what you said... mmm interesting concepts.

Keep it up.

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