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monimaking
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 Posted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 10:51 am Post subject: Approaching a lady at a train station |
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Hi
I met this woman on my train a long time ago and we had a brief conversation but she got off before I could get name details etc.
I’ve seen her again a couple times but she gets on my train in a different cab of the train.
She’s always giving contant eye contact.
I board the train at the same station as her but she’s normally surrounded by two friends. (one male and one lady friend.)
The other day her lady friend was staring at me more than her so I presume they’ve had a minor discussion about me.
I'm quite discreet with my looking. Dont want to expose my game.
I also know exactly where she gets off the train (one stop) before mine.
It seems awkard to approach on a crowded train.
“Man”, this chic is super sexy, foxy hot and so classy!
Trust me I used to run a model agency so I mean very very hot.
But I can’t afford to blow this one out with a poor approach.
Would you advise me to make an approach on
A) The Platform before boarding the train (depsite the friends
surrounding her. The friends also sit
on the train with her which makes it awkward)
Or
B) should I get off the train prematurely at her stop and approach then.
She will know I’ve jumped off early as she knows I never get off there.
Any decent advice would be appreciated. Thanks in advance.
Bst Regards, Moni. |
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worldwidechris
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| Getting off at her stop could be risky, meaning creepy to her. If you play it off as if there's a nearby store you need to get to or something like that then she might buy it. If it was me, I'd try talking to the set before they got on the train and just sitting with them as convo continued on ("How do you all know each other?"). You could separate her from the group by saying something like "there's this old guy Al that get's on at the same car each day and I help him out" (DHV), then taking her to the next car (even if there is no old guy). There's plenty of opportunity for good convo here, and in no time she will be seeking a spot next to you. There's also plenty of opportunity for a quiet ride, so be wary of being boring. I'd make the train ride home the highlight of her day, which would make each day better than the last. Do you see each other both morning and night? |
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kinetik14
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| Posted: Wed Mar 26, 2008 6:01 am Post subject: |
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| worldwidechris wrote: | | Getting off at her stop could be risky, meaning creepy to her. If you play it off as if there's a nearby store you need to get to or something like that then she might buy it. If it was me, I'd try talking to the set before they got on the train and just sitting with them as convo continued on ("How do you all know each other?"). You could separate her from the group by saying something like "there's this old guy Al that get's on at the same car each day and I help him out" (DHV), then taking her to the next car (even if there is no old guy). There's plenty of opportunity for good convo here, and in no time she will be seeking a spot next to you. There's also plenty of opportunity for a quiet ride, so be wary of being boring. I'd make the train ride home the highlight of her day, which would make each day better than the last. Do you see each other both morning and night? |
how would you take her to the next car after that Al routine? |
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