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a3ghost
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 Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 10:16 pm Post subject: Approach Anxiety and Being Asian |
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So hey guys I know its pretty easy for preps (specifically Caucasian) to get along with other hot blonde cheerleading preps in high school. The problem is that I'm asian and I'm not a prep. The good news is that I'm a jock, meaning people in the athletic and cheerleading field know me. I'm also known in state as the number 1 ranked in my individual sport. Not only that but I am also a senior. My ex gf told me that i'm selling myself short; being an afc.
I have some approach anxiety after reading the basic game material. I don't feel like I can approach preps and such because I'm not a prep. I dress differently and such. I feel like when an asian guy approaches them it would be a weird thing.
Any other good PUA that is asian or something of that sort? I know latinos and blacks have it easy with them because their race is more common, but in my area there barely are any asians at school. |
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Fact
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When it comes down to the different social groups they all socialize the same. In high school I wore fishnet and had jelled up hair down to my shoulders but I talked to everyone the same and they all reacted the same. The fact that people segregate themselves according to clothing style or race is not because they have nothing in common with people unlike themselves, it's because when everyone's sent out into a thriving social environment, no one can be alone so almost out of subtle fear they all group together on their visual commonalties when in actuality, they could find commonalties with someone who looks nothing like them. Disregard this natural visual segregation and you will go far in the social world.
Good luck!
Also, check out asian playboy:
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bodywave
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| Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 12:49 am Post subject: Re: Approach Anxiety and Being Asian |
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Any other good PUA that is asian or something of that sort? I know latinos and blacks have it easy with them because their race is more common, but in my area there barely are any asians at school. |
Hmm .. I am asian and I am at the best shape in my life. I get IOI's from all kinds of different race. But I live in Toronto which is very multicultural city. However, just because you're one of the few asian dudes in your school doesn't mean that you cannot approach hot blondes. Here are some tips that will help you:
1. be in style. stylish enough so that you don't look nerdy or goofy.
2. be well groomed. wear clean sneakers and clothes. Also, maintain clean skin.
3. smile when you talk to guys and girls.
4. SMELL NICE. Buy some nice colon and wear it EVERYDAY. Please don't buy cheap ones.
When you have all of the above tips down, trust be me, chicks will notice about you. Then when you see chicks you like, just say hi with gentle smile. That's it .. just chat away and plan a meet ups. |
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nietzsche
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There are plenty of asians out there who can get some nice chicks. I actually think that chicks that are surrounded by white guys find other races more interesting. They're just waiting for you to go up and talk to them, trust me. I mostly noticed this with girls from not very diverse backgrounds being attracted to my black friend. I also have an indian friend who is ridiculously good at gaming. So basically...you're fine. |
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minijag
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Look at improving you're inner game.
These guys are right, and so is your exgirlfriend. Clothes have nothing to do with anything. Think about it, do you think you would approach one 'type' of girl different from another? If you actually answered yes, then you're wrong. |
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