I have noticed that very few PUA forums out there exist that can legitimately help people with game advice and most have no tolerance for those who have had their struggles in the game caused by bad environment and upbringing.

Like I have had my past demons, growing up as a foreign looking guy in the deep south is very tough. I have found that being anything other than Black or White is a handicap down here after doing over 100 approaches and more. Yet I realized slowly that while you have members who do legitimately try to give advice and help you out, you have other issues coming up.

It seems like some of the people who are trying to "help" and be a part of the community grew up in soft environments and have no idea what others go through. These people rather than helping just go and say "oh shut up" or "oh ban this person already" or "man this guy is a troll" when the fact of the matter is the person legitimately wants information and help. Rather than helping, they insult the person and beg the mods to ban him rather than help him. What is worse is a lot of these people are actually active members inside of the community who have no idea on how to help out a new person yet continuously post on this forum because it is some type joy to them.

Also, a lot of these people seem to have VERY SHORT TEMPERS for a bunch of people who claim to have been with a lot of women. Again, I debate that claim, and I stand by saying those guys are making up their stories. I admit my failures, these dumbfucks make up success stories.

What is even more sad is that I have noticed PUA forums SLOWLY turn into dick measuring contests where everyone is ruthlessly debating theories and attacking each other rather than helping out guys out there who really want help and are more than willing to accept it. Mods, my threads have been trolled by two of the same users who I strongly believe have no place on this forum which has helped me in the past.

Anyways, how do mods or gurus and others try to fix this type of an attitude that occurs on PUA forums?

How can PUA forums again be made into forums that help people rather than petty little dick measuring contests for guys who hope to be gurus but couldn't get laid 10 times in a year even if you put them in Vegas?

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Why are you even care how many times people get laid ? You should care about yourself and that's it.

And btw people gave you advice here and good ones. You just don't listen.

Dumb ass is dumb ass seriously. People give you advice a trillion times and you don't listen. You were the kid that put your hands on the stove after your parents told you why not to a million times. You like to play with fire even though you know it burns down a house. In other words you ask stupid questions and don't use common sense. That's why you're so damned miserable.

Every single person he vents about has spent valuable time and effort trying to help paramount with long and reasoned posts. He blew all of them off and eventually resorted to name calling and insults, and when it wasn't appreciated, framed himself as the professional victim, and is now spamming the entire forum complaining about how mean people are to him, begging mods to ban all the meanies, and how apparently we suck and couldn't get laid with 10 girls in a year (the irony is that I have openly said I only ever dated/slept with 9, but couldn't care less). He reminds me of my borderline exes (both of them).

Wooo, strong post name to content ratio.

Anyways, because if you haven't had that much success with women yourselves you don't have the right to insult others and question their credibility. Like the two trolls in particular (one posting on this thread) have.

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

I don't cry victim but dicklow, hunterfoxxe, and Z have no business on here as they have done nothing but gone on to threads and call other people trolls. All three should indeed be banished from this forum. I strongly urge the mods to do IP checks on these guys because I am convinced they have one more than one account.

See a guy like me, I have grown from this forum and had my successes. Right now I am at a bit of a low and yes I do have a particular inner game issue bothering but I don't go around calling people dumbasses and insulting them on their threads. I believe this forum would be a much better place if all three of those users are banned because they have added no value or anything useful to it. I have given great advice on here in the past and shown progress, these guys are making up stories, bullshitting everyone, and now they are insulting people trying to improve themselves.

I strong urge the mods to permanently ban all three of them and make them get mental help.

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