JimmyMac
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 Posted: Sat Mar 29, 2008 2:46 pm Post subject: Am I pathetic, or what? |
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OK....so here's my story, in a nutshell, of course.
Yesterday was my birthday. I am now officially 47. I am divorced...twice. Married the same high maintenance, pain-in-the-butt type twice. Been on my own for a year. No women since moving out in May '07. No action from the ex since about July '06.
I'm a little frustrated, to say the least. And not just because of lack of action. But more because I COMPLETELY have no clue and no game. At least, no game inside my head.
It is all mental. I have always been approached by women. I was never the initiator. It worked when I was younger. Not so well now.
Am I fat, ugly, undesirable, old looking, old acting, boring, or in any way a turn off to women? No. I have a lot of friends whose wives are dying for me to get hooked up with somebody.
I actually have a great 'in', in that I am a guitar player in a playing band. Women see me doing my thing. That should get me in the door, right? It kind of does, but, even though I know how to interact in public, I never take the bold high road and turn the corner to seducing a woman. I chit-chat for a few moments, and drop the ball. WTF????
What's up with that? It's borderline frustrating and depressing.
I'm not looking for another wife. I'm not even sure if i want a girlfriend. But I would like to be able to meet women and feel like I am in control of my own 'destiny', so to speak.
So here I am. And I am on a mission. So today, I am going to start in that direction. If you have ideas for me, I would appreciate it.
Thanks!
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mozyFresh
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Dont worry about it man, if you learn the techniques and apply what you've learnt with determination, you'll be suprised and will bring you success in one way or another.
I suggest you start off with david deangelo and mystery method, then take a look at some of the NLP stuff and juggler method.
Good Luck
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