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shorteez
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Joined: 03 Oct 2007
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Location: Amstelveen - Netherlands
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 Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 9:49 am Post subject: Am I on the right track? |
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Guys,
I met a HB8.5 2 weeks ago. She is the niece of one of my closest (girl) friends. We were going to a club on saturday. I noticed right away that she is very social, well to get to the point. We were grinding a bit and i walked away to some other people i met that night. When i returned, there was a guy standing behind her witch made her feel quite uncomfortable. So i pulled her away and started dancing with her again. She enjoyed that and when that guy was gone i told her that it was safe again. She replied: 'Do you really think it's safe?' Pointing at me....
I told her i liked her but she wasn't really my type, i walked away again to get some drinks, when i came back she was all over me. But i didn't do anything. I could tell that she was interested, and to be honest i am too.
Two days later she started to e-mail me that she had a good time. Now here is the problem, we have been mailing since that day, sometimes i iniciate, somethimes she does. I gave her my number and told her in a mail that she should call or txt when she wanted to meet. Two days later she suddenly txt how she was doing and so on. But not inviting me for a date or such.
I replied in a normal way telling he rmy brother had his anniversary and how i was doing.
Now after telling you guys this, what should you guys advice me to do. Nothing happend yet, but i kinda like this girl a lot. Should i just call or txt her to meet up or should i play another game? |
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PrettyBoy41
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Location: the YAY area
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| Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 5:14 pm Post subject: |
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| ugh ya know i hate tip toe-in around shit too, but sometimes ya gotta. i woud keep doin what your doin, and after like a week or two, just drop in somethin like "hey so when are we gunna hang out?" |
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Ink
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Joined: 23 Jan 2008
Posts: 24
Location: Marbella, Spain
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| Posted: Sat Feb 09, 2008 9:53 pm Post subject: BE A MAN |
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Come on Bro you have to step up and be a Man!
For a lot of guys on this forum who think they are great but actually never get off the internet and out into the field they may think you should let her make the move BUT thats very very wrong!
Women shoud not have to ask you out! Im not saying a chick should never ask you out but the point is in this situation you should have led her to the next date and closed her as a pose to mis-using the push and pull technique as you have done. You have tried to build your value but actually have lowered it! I would not be surpirised if she even had some inkling you were trying to play her (Although Im sure she has no idea in terms of PUA and the community) Fact is you definitely havent blown it and Im sure you can both go down a road together still! You should know from the studies though that Women rarely ring guys and ask for the date offered to her. You tell her when she could have the opportunity to enjoy your company doing something cool and then she can agree to come. Much better! |
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