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HigherMentality
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 Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 11:31 pm Post subject: Alright mofos...im new and i need some insight |
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well hello fellow pua's of the world..first let me start off by saying i wish you all much success in your endeavors, and i am more than willing to share my wisdom in the areas i am strong. however i do still have my weaknesses...let me tell you a bit about my issues, i am in the military for starters, so women are scarce where i work, i normally dont have time to start long relationships so one nighters will do, but it would be nice to find some steady sex buddies. Im currently in Germany where most of the women seem infatuated with nothing but American blackmen. Myself being white cant seem to get any love from these predictable women.I am clean cut, always stay well groomed and dress hip hop, because i grew up on the shit being from New York. I feel i lack confidence, i dont smile because i feel theres nothing to smile about why would i smile for no reason, and perhaps my biggest issue is the approach, im normally that guy that sits back watching all the other chumps spit one liners and fail, hoping maybe the woman will notice me ..but to no avail. Im not shy once i get to talking, but my biggest question is i dont know what to say when i first go up to a woman...and i dont know how to get from point A meeting the girl, to point B getting her in bed...if anyones got some guidance please give me a push in the right direction. My bad if this shits too long....be easy
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HigherMentality
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| Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 11:39 pm Post subject: also.. |
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| Oh and also..how do you convince a woman that your what she wants when she claims shes looking for something else....for example, say a woman says she hatess sushi...and only loves salad...but you are the sushi, how the fuck you gunna convince her your delicious and would satisfy her better than any salad ever could? you feel me? |
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Hobbit
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| Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 11:43 pm Post subject: Re: Alright mofos...im new and i need some insight |
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| HigherMentality wrote: | | fellow pussyhunter's of the world.. |
PUA's aren't pussy hunters.
| HigherMentality wrote: | | one nighters are fine by me. |
This isn't the goal of a PUA
| HigherMentality wrote: | | any love from these predictable hoes. |
Derogatory remarks about women are frowned upon.
| HigherMentality wrote: | | kicking her out of my bed in the morning. |
This isn't PUA either.
I'm trying to point out things that will get you in trouble on this board. This forum isn't about misogyny. Or using women. A rule of PUA is "leave the woman better than when you found her". You really should remember that. Please try to not present yourself in such a non-PUA fashion, for your own sake.
I digress...
I think you should work on your confidence and inner game. Looks don't matter in attraction. The whole black thing is just what they think they want. You should read a lot of A1-A3 theory. Push/Pull, Neg, Cat String Theory, DHV, etc. All this stuff will make them see you in a new (darker?) light.
Welcome to the forum. |
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Paramour
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| Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 11:47 pm Post subject: |
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Nicely put Hobbit, Thank You....  |
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HigherMentality
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| Posted: Mon Jan 28, 2008 11:52 pm Post subject: thanks |
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| obviously i have my work cut out for me...maybe that my problem, all the failed attempts have made me bitter, i used to get a steady flow of action from women ....but this past year ive been in such a drought its frustrating...any tips on how to get with a hot friend of a siblings? |
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BigJonMud
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Hi HigherMentality,
Im new to the boards here, but I found one aspect of your post i'd like to address.. The smiling thing. I know exactly what you mean, and being totally honest with where you're at and how you feel about it can be a great start to inner game stuff.
Something that occured to me though, is this: While even I have ground enough of my teeth away in the past few years that I find it hard to smile, I still do it anyway. And you wanna know why? Becuase its a bloody powerful energy that can be used in a lot of ways.
What if you knew, deep down inside yourself, that simply remembering a time when you were nearly smiling your face off could be used to grow your cock bigger? 2-3 inches bigger? I mean, can it be enough to reaslise that a simple smile can direct some kind of energy where you want it to go and simply make things happen? I'm not sure, but with sexual kungfu the smile is probably the first and foremost powerful tool. It helps to plow the field of the body, the same way that a genuine smile can ready a target for your approach.
Im saying that if theres nothing to smile about, you could probably think of something that does make you smile, and just build and build on it from there.
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