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run4life413
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 Posted: Wed Aug 22, 2007 10:30 pm Post subject: Alot harder when your out on the field! |
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i just got off track practise today and there was this girl in my grade i hardly knew so i though why the hell not get a little bit of practise? she was watching the football players (her bro is one). i opend then got a laugh in it felt very smooth. but for some reason i couldnt get her to make any eye contact with me at all not evan a glance im not ugly either! what caould be the reasons for this or wht could i have done? so anyways the convo ended because i didnt feel it could go far with no eye contact.
i did however come from a grp of guys that were 5 yrds away but its not like they all came over and were n the convo i made sure we were in 2 seperate grps. do you think the guys i came from and were still fairly close intimidated her?
my first opening and engaging in convo since i started reading this site!! woot |
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VanHaven
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| What felt smooth for you may not have been smooth for her. Reminds me of an episode of Becker where his date went home with a "headache" while he thought the date went great. Can you give some more details? Maybe how you approached her and what was said during the conversation? |
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AceSpade
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You mentioned the word "grade".
I'm assuming she's lets say 16. She's still young, her confidence is probably not that high.
It's hard for a girl to look a dude in the eyes. That takes confidence or a good comfort level.
Don't give women the benefit of the doubt, they're human too. |
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Boonen
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| Posted: Thu Aug 23, 2007 5:28 am Post subject: |
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| Maybe there girl is just super shy and quiet. Some people feel awkward with eye contact. |
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