wtf is this shit? almost got arrested my ass
since you have done nothing illegal, you can't be arrested, you don't need to sit there and wait around while cops harass you and drill you to try to find something self incriminating
next time you are stopped by a cop, first ask them if you are being detained, if they so no, then you say, ok then I wish to leave, if they ask for i.d., do it up, if they start drilling you, state that ''I do not wish to impede you in any way but I do not wish to answer any questions without legal representation'' memorize that statement so that you can remember it when the time comes, repeat that phrase as many times as you have to until the police leave you alone, if they try to keep you around for further harassment past the point of refusing to answer questions, you tell them you wish to call a lawyer, then you ask your directory or operator to connect you to legal aid, once you have legal aid on the phone, talk to the lawyer, tell him what's going on, chances are he will want to speak with the police, and chances are the police won't want to speak to him, or be talking to you anymore
they have no right to unlawfully detain you, and you not wanting to be harassed is not probable cause for detention
also, keep in mind, police will arrest you if they have a reason, so if they tell you that you are ''almost'' arrested, it is nothing but some bullshit they tell you to try to scare you when they have nothing on you, if they could have arrested you, they would have, better believe that, cops don't give second chances when the offense is arrestable, you did absolutely nothing illegal
and also, they can not even arrest you for tresspass without you being issued a notice to trespass (warning to stay off the property for X amount of time), or having signs posted that read ''private property, no tresspassing'' (if the signs just say private property, then they have to give you a notice to trespass)
at least this ^ is the canadian law in my province (so look that one up before you quote me on it)
so all you have to do, is go pickup somewhere else, and the next time police come to you, you know what to do, no need to get all worried and anxious about some cops giving you a hard time, when you have no reason to be anxious, talking to people is infact... not breaking the law, unless there is some sort of malicious intent to assault or harass behind your words and actions, there really isn't anything they can do at all, even in terms of harassment you actually have to be knowing and willingfully expressing the intent to threaten or disturb, if it is unknowing and not repetative then it is not harassment, just be polite and call a lawer if worse comes to worse, you'll be out of there quicker then you can blink, and you absolutely don't have to even answer a cops questions, not even after being arressted, and I reccomend you don't as cops will go fishing for any minor infractions they can to give you tickets for, when you don't infact have to tell them anything, most people will just get nervous and start incriminating themselves more then anything
just remember, if they have a reason to arrest you, you will be arrested, better believe it, so find out right away if you are being detained, if not, just be polite and curtious and leave as soon as possible
and the cops called you a loser? and a weirdo?... that's clearly defemation of character and bordering on harassment (not that you would likely be able to bring this to court without proof), and you are sitting here questioning yourself instead of questioning the moral fortitude of these police, were these even real police?
also email the police chief with an appology and have him appeal the charge?... what charge? you weren't charged with anything or you would have been arrested or fined, if anything you should send an e-mail with a complaint against these guys rather then an appology, they didn't do you any favours, they were completely unprofessional, a girl makes a complaint agaisnt you based purely off heresay and they treat you like you aren't even human as a result, and you are just ok with this? you were trying to compliment some women and get a date and when they showed they weren't interested you left them alone, it's not like you were the evil creepy stalker, slinking around campus trying to abduct women and bundy them or anything... you had no intention of causing anyone harm at all
do you continue, do you quit? you make your own choices,
I want more than anything to become amazing with women and be a complete natural, in doing so finding who I really am and sculpting myself into a guy 10. I have a plan in mind on how I am going to do it, and every day I work toward my goal. I really want to just keep pressing on, even if it means standing ten feet away from campus and doing my day game. I don't want to let anything stand in the way of my success, but then again, I have to question whether or not I'm just delusional and if maybe this isn't for me. Maybe I have a hidden mental illness keeping me from this or something.
pick one for yourself, your opinion should be the most important to you, who cares what someone else thinks you should do or what someone else thinks you are, you are you, not what other people say, believe in yourself before other people
if you continue, just be prepared, most women don't care that you approach and alot are infact flattered, but obviously there are a few that will go out of their way to give you a hard time (i.e. what happened to you), it happens, if you can deal with that, then you can move forward from this, if you can't, then maybe this game just isn't for you