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You joined a PUA forum so my guess and advice is that you don't want to be with a girl who has a kid right now.I'm not saying you should ditch her just meet someone else.
Come on... What has that got to do with it?
As long as you dont harm the kid in any way you are fine. But I assume since you seem to be a decent fellow that you will follow the one and only rule we have, leave her better than you found her. By harming the kid I mean of course bringing sadness and crap into an otherwise happy childhood, so no tragedies. I did not insinuate that you would be mean to it of course.
I would say that the girl is like any other girl you ever met. She just happened to get pregnant in a relation that turned out to not work. One bad decision that seemed good at the time. We have all done those. Treat her well and above all like anobody else. The fact that she has a kid has nothing to do with it, it probably scares most guys... But then again, we are not most guys are we?
Go for it my man!