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chazman0426
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 Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 7:58 pm Post subject: 8 out of 10 girls have a boy friend (numbers game) in a rut. |
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| I'm in college with 27,000 undergrads with a 40/60 girl to guy ratio. There are more guys here than girls since it is an engineering school but the girls that are here are for the most party very hot like 8 thru 10's on at least half of them. So there's got to be like 10,000+ girls. For the last 2 months I have been meeting girls left and right and have gotten IOI's on even some but on almost 90% of them I hit the "I have a boyfriend" or the "yea my boyfriend bla bla bla". I know I usally just make a cocky comment or a friendly one and exit but this is happening like all the time and it's really discouraging. It's like I missed national get together day or something. Even the last 3 frat parties I went to where you'd think yo'd find single girls about 6 out of 10 have bf's and they are dancing with all these guys! It's like cmon if your taken don't go acting like your single. Even about 90% of my guy friend have gf's and it feels like I'm the only single guy. I workout everyday and have been doing so for 3 years so I am in pretty good shape and I consider myself attractive not that it matters for girls. Any tips for moving past this rut? It's really killing my game and confidence where I feel so good talking to a girl and getting IOI's then splat she's taken so I'm in the LJBF automatically. This boyfriend deal is happening 9 out of 10 times and the one time she's single she's really overweight or not just not attractive at all. It's gonna hurt on V day(tomorrow) I was thinking of using V day to use cocky and funny with a lot of girls to game like ( will you be my valentine jokingly ect. ) Latley I have learned just not to care anymore and i can be happy without any girl in my life but at the same time it kills my game. Any tips guys, I know i'm vague but don't you ever feel like your the only single guy on earth? How do you move past this? |
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minijag
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| They aren't married, remember. Learn how to boyfriend destroy... You shouldn't feel bad about stealing a girlfriend away, half the time people don't break up until they meet someone new. |
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96Firebird
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I'm curious, what college is this? Because the large engineering college that I'm thinking of has a low percentage of girls.
And don't worry about the boyfriend, some girls just have a boyfriend to have a boyfriend. Plus, its around Valentines day so they all picked a guy so they wouldn't be alone today. |
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Rye Lee
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| If you've read much PUA material at all, you should know that saying, "I have a bf" is often just a shield and the rest of the time the vast majority of women aren't in "committed" relationships. There is a big difference between a girl that is truly committed to her bf and one that isn't. The main difference is that I'll fuck the first one, but not the second, cause the guy obviously isn't doing his job right and treating the girl the way she should be, so I'll make her happy for him. A committed girl can still be seduced in a moment of weakness, but she'll feel bad about it and it could destroy a good relationship, but if the girl isn't committed, then you're almost doing her a favor if it causes her to break up with her bf, cause she'll probably realise that there are better guys out there. |
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Mr. Fantastic
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| Really hot girls just dont stay single for long. Don't feel bad about stealing someone's girl. Unless the guy is a friend of mine, I just don't give a fuck at all. |
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felix5
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Yer, i can relate to that. Not much you can do except suck it up and move onto the next piece of sniz candy. The 'boyfriend destroying' material is truelly retarted and lets just say hypothetically it worked, i sincerely doubt that female it worked on would be worth knowing.
Ill tell you how i react to it. Let me set the scene.
fluff talk, fluff talk, fluff talk...
FELIX5: What did you get up to on the weekend?
FEMALE: Well, me and dad went on a bike ride, then went fishing. That was cool. *(comment gets dropped randomly)* MY-BOYFRIEND-CALLED-ME-ASWELL...
FELIX5: (delivered in a playfull mannor) AHAHA, I love it when girls subtly drop the boyfriend bomb, its like their assuming that im hitting on them or something.
FEMALE: (awkwardly) NO! I DIDNT THINK THAT AT ALL
FELIX5: AHAHA, okay, im sorry you must be one of the different-special ones.
It wont get you a phone number, but it feels good to give em a verbal turkey slap and its better than putting in the time and effort to pry them away from their partner. Jokes aside, it does seem odd when girls do that (persistantly drop the boyfriend bomb in a conversation), I think its pretty arrogant to assume im hitting on you so you have to make a point of having a boyfriend.
Sometimes though, it might be worth persisting, because iv been in a situation where it truely was a test. She did have a boyfriend, and she kept constantly, subtly telling me. She kept bringing up the BF and injecting him into the conversation (anyone know why girls do this?). I just kept ignorning it and she eventually succumbed. Point being, if your better then their current BF, and the girl lacks moral fibre, they'll trade up. But ask yourself, is this really a person worth knowing? Turns out in my case it wasnt.
PS if the answer is - you dont want to know her and just want to fuck her. Your a dick and you have self esteem issues. |
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felix5
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Just read something interesting that mystery once wrote:
'Anti Slut defence is what makes a girl blurt out 'i have a boyfriend' (whether she actually does or not) because you escalated faster than she was comfortable with'. |
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Rye Lee
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| felix5 wrote: | Just read something interesting that mystery once wrote:
'Anti Slut defence is what makes a girl blurt out 'i have a boyfriend' (whether she actually does or not) because you escalated faster than she was comfortable with'. |
See my previous post.
Me and one of my wings went out last night and talked to just about every good looking girl in the place (it was pretty slow being a Monday night) and of the 8 girls I personally talked to, none of them told me that they had a bf, but if they had, I would have just said, "That's great! Are you guys thinking of getting married? I can totally picture you in 5 years; little baby blue townhouse, with a white picket fence, a golden retriever and 2.6 kids...I think you're gonna be happy..." That's my favorite BF destroyer and it works just about every time I use it, the girl gets all pouty and says something like, "NOOO! I'm gonna live in a big house and blah blah blah." Then you just tease them about how her bf is gonna want her to stay home, do the dishes and take care of the kids, etc. By the time you're done, she's willing to do anything just to show that she's exciting and she won't have such a mundane existence. |
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