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elotrix
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 Posted: Tue Dec 04, 2007 1:00 pm Post subject: 6:1 Boy/Girl Ratio, How do YOU get the girl |
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It is often, that at many social get togethers (parties if you will) I see many guys, sometimes them being my friends, crowding around 2-3-4 girls (which atleast one of them will seem interesting to me). So i join that crowd, come off as Alpha as possible, throw in a zinger every now and then or a sweet neg, and basically come off as mysterious as possible.
This works most of the times, that the other guys try too much and bore the girls, but i want to ask you.
Any specific instructions on how to win a girl amongst a 10 guy crowd? |
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alexandros
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wow, this sound a particular tough situation. if you are able to get the girl, you'll end up looking like a superman. Lol.
what i would do in this particular situation is that i would first build the attraction level by showing her some magic tricks (you did learn your magic didnt you.) once she become attracted to you extract her from the room to somewhere quieter and then work your magic. |
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elotrix
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show her some magic tricks?
like literally? card tricks?
dont hate me for misunderstanding, im new to this forum, havent read any Game book and dont know the "slang" too much. |
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Valence
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Read some more.
The entire idea is being that 1 out of 10. Or more realistically, being that 1 out of 100.......
The idea is that you are going to be a PUA....... Start on that path. |
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Enchantment
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I'd recommend reading The Game (By Neil Strauss) first, and follow it up with Mystery Method. The Game will introduce you to the terminology, some history, an understanding of the lifestyle, etc.
As for the magic he's talking about, it's more along the lines of impressive feats of magic, then card tricks (But whatever you've got, make it work for you). It's utilizing illusions to impress and captivate her. See Chick Crack:
CHICK CRACK—noun: any spiritual or psychological subject that appeals to most women but does not interest most men, such as astrology, tarot cards, and personality tests. Origin: Tyler Durden.
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MrHyde
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Also depends on your style and your amount of Social proof. Personally I don't like magic in a group, one on one is better. To easy to everybody's clown/entertainer in a group.
Sounds like you have no problems be alpha, so if you really are, take a girl by the hand (compliance) and isolate.
Qualify, availability,etc ,etc. IOI, kino.....
Sounds like you are stuck at being that Mysterious Alpha guy in the corner versus that AMOG that can pick any girl in the room and walk out with her.
-Hyde |
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elotrix
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Guys I appreciate your posts, altough I am new to the terminology and would rather you all explain yourselfs in the language that I would understand.
And if you can, be specific 
THANX |
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Danimal
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| If you look under terms of importance sticky at the top of the Newbie page you will find definitions of these terms (IOI's, negs, etc.). Learning them will make your studying much easier... |
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Starbuck
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Wait for a break in the action, make eye contact with her and smile (pick one of the hottest chicks there as your target). Then walk up to her facing her, look directly into her eyes and say, in front of everybody;
"I'm livin' for givin' the devil his due..,
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and I'm burnin', I'm burnin', I'm burnin' for 'you'.."
Then walk off. If you do it right, the chick will be looking for you all night. So will her friends when they get the word.
Be the flame, not the moth.  |
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gyarados
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"I'm livin' for givin' the devil his due..,
[pause]
and I'm burnin', I'm burnin', I'm burnin' for 'you'.."
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THIS WORKS??? 
Why not just ignore all the chicks and be the opposite of the other 10 AFC's 
I've battled against like 5 other blokes by lettingf them compliment the girls while i walk around looking cool then at the last minute watch the target ignore everyone else while they cockblock each other, and then wait for her to approach me.  |
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Monkey
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Walk in, hit on the guys. All of them at once, if you have to. Make sure they know you're hitting on them. Be as gay as humanly possible. Then watch them disappear.
When they're gone (or most of them) turn to the girl.
Monkey: Whew! I'm glad they're gone. Thought I'd have to act like that all night.
Only difficulty comes when one of them hits back. At which point, you let him know you're trying "metro" on for size, and have a significant fear of the cock. |
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Starbuck
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| Simcity wrote: | | Starbuck wrote: |
"I'm livin' for givin' the devil his due..,
[pause]
and I'm burnin', I'm burnin', I'm burnin' for 'you'.."
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THIS WORKS???
Why not just ignore all the chicks and be the opposite of the other 10 AFC's
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Many things work. Think of it as just a different way of opening. Of giving her permission to be interested.
Sure the strategy you mention can work as well. If;
A. You have a better non verbal game than the competition, etc..
B. You have the time to wait around for her to realize this on her own, and she's willing to approach.
I was under the impression the guy was having difficulty getting noticed in this environment. Besides, just because the guys circling the chicks are engaging in 'moth like' behavior, doesn't mean they aren't somewhat attractive to the women they are circling.
My point in posting this was to offer the guy a strategy to get noticed. Of course he could walk right up, say he doesn't have time for small talk (time constraint) and ask one for their phone number. But this gives her the ability to reject.
It's been my experience that even though women may send you signals that they want you to approach, the majority of women will not approach you without some form of advance, open and reciprocal signal of interest by a guy.
By expressing interest of this sort you tell her how you feel, and you give her no option but to accept this interest with no ability to reject you outright. And she's probably in this mind set already since she's being bombarded with interest from the other guys circling her.
I used similar 'phrases of interest' for years in bars. And even though it may not work with the target for a variety of reasons (she's married, already with somebody, etc..), inevitably she will signal the other girls in the room about the bold and confident hot guy, and her friends will suddenly take a great interest in you too. You've just established two things.
A. You're here
'and'
B. You're different
Try it sometime.
Here's another one.
'You're the one I've been waiting for forever.'
These are NLP phrases that trip the attraction trigger, and curiosity. These are best used on the hottest, most socially valuable chicks in the room. Trickle down social proof if you will.
Again you need strong body language, eye contact skills, tonal inflection and a decent smile, etc.. when you deliver these. And they are best delivered when a girl is in a group, and when you are a relative unknown or not within her social group already. Then just walk away. Her move.
Don't be surprised when chicks you hadn't noticed before suddenly start sending you IOI's as well. Even while surrounded by other guys. And that's the moment you should approach, and escalate by trying to get her away from the crowd.
You're only challenge at that point will be which chick to approach. 
Man.., I can't give you guys all my secrets. |
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| have hickey on ur neck, that way you'll stand out from the crowd as you are already pre selected. and plus she'll ask you where did you get that from and you can easily deny it by saying it's from a paintball game and then run your routine as normal. |
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Starbuck
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| ALPHA ASIAN wrote: | | have hickey on ur neck, that way you'll stand out from the crowd as you are already pre selected. and plus she'll ask you where did you get that from and you can easily deny it by saying it's from a paintball game and then run your routine as normal. |
Yeah, get your buddy to give you one, before you walk in..
Man, seriously, there's got to be a lipstick kiss stencil on the internet somewhere. Somebody see if they can find one. |
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| ALPHA ASIAN wrote: | | have hickey on ur neck, that way you'll stand out from the crowd as you are already pre selected. and plus she'll ask you where did you get that from and you can easily deny it by saying it's from a paintball game and then run your routine as normal. |
umm..NO |
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