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kiwi-indian
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 Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 8:32 am Post subject: 5 number closes but no dates! :-( |
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Since I started using PUA routines I've had 5 number closes. Admittedly 1 was of a girl who had a BF and another two were from my online dating site. Still though they came about as a result of using the tips and techniques I've learned from this forum.
My problem though is I am yet to secure a date. The first number close I blew after over negging her (as I mentioned in an earlier post). I never heard back from her after my 3rd text. The second number close was the one with a BF but I wanted to network with her as she was a HB9+. She never replied to my txt. The third number close was a second time chance encounter of a HB7 I'd approached a couple of days earlier. I tried calling her but no one answered so I sent her a text saying her phone had gone funny when I called. She later replied saying she was packing and off to see her Mum for Easter. I tried calling her again but no one picked up. I sent her another text saying that I called again. I did not hear back from her.
The other two number closes were from my online sarging efforts. The first actually volunteered her number after I email closed her and sent her an email. I have not called her yet as she has not replied to my second email. The second I number closed but I have not called her yet. I will do that tomorrow.
So yeah, to cut a long story short, I've been having some success with number closes but have not been able to take this to the next step. |
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Chief
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| Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 9:11 am Post subject: |
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ok
soo uhh are you asking a question or something? lol
5 numbers is nothing. Just keep going, and keep setting up day 2s (dates) but read up on/try out different ways on how to do that. |
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kiwi-indian
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| Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 9:42 am Post subject: |
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| Chief999 wrote: | ok
soo uhh are you asking a question or something? lol
5 numbers is nothing. Just keep going, and keep setting up day 2s (dates) but read up on/try out different ways on how to do that. |
LOL I was merely venting. I was hoping to have lined up something for this Easter break but as you say 5 is nothing. Gotta keep at it. Thanks for your feedback.  |
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The Shoveler
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| Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 3:01 pm Post subject: |
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I have 2 suggestions:
1. Maybe set up the premise for a day 2 when u number close. This can be difficult sometimes, but it will decrease the chance of her flaking later on.
2. Maybe you are doing something wrong in your phone game. There are many different theories on approaching it, but after some trial and error I decided to use Tyler Durden's method. I think that texting her that she didnt call you back is a bad idea. Instead, I would act like its no big deal. Anyways, the article can easily be found if you type in tyler durden phone game into google. Hope it helps! |
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sydarm
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| Posted: Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:35 pm Post subject: |
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| Quote: | | The first actually volunteered her number after I email closed her and sent her an email. I have not called her yet as she has not replied to my second email |
If she gave u her number, don't email again. Call. |
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