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hollywoodinpa
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 Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 3:41 pm Post subject: 5 Good Openers |
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1# Very Direct
“ You are so Damn sexy, (Pause) and I am going to get to know you (Pause) so tell me something about yourself (smile)
Delivery here is crucial. If you deliver good, in most cases they get shocked…and they are like “ so what you want to know?”
Me : “ Everything, but lets start with music.. what kind of music you listen”
From here go into Rapport (Wide & Deep), as this opener will provide you with lots of attraction. Its very easy to transition to any other topic. As frame you created allows it.
2# Bank Robbery
“Hey girls, are u good drivers? Me and Friend, are robbing bank across the street, and guess what (pause). Driver screwed us. All you need to do is picks us up at XX.00am, and drive to airport. You get 3%.
This always leads into good conversation, with good energy. This is my opener number 1# right now. They always want to negotiate their %. And they will ask for 5%
If zou want to create more drama here, start opener with this:
Hey girls, let me ask you something, can you keep a secret?
Girls :yes
You : OK… (opener)
Delivery must be Playful.
Be prepared to get lots of IOIs.
3# Oral sex
Hey girls, Let me ask you something (pause) Oral sex on first date (pause) Yes or No?
This is my new one. They get shocked because you are so bold. I usually fallow up with a story :
See, they did study about this in Cambridge, and they found out that couples that had oral sex on first date, stayed together very very long time. Some of them even got married. And I have this date tomorrow, and I would like to have something with her, but, I really don’t want to get married. do you believe in this bullshit, or you fallow your instincts?
Changing topic here is very easy. No need to transition to direct, as you are already there.
4# Best Friend Just Died
Hey girls, let me ask you something, my best friend just dies, and his girlfriend started hitting on me.. how long should I wait before I start dating her?
This one is so much fun.
Usually they say ‘wait 6 months’
Me : really? Because she started hitting on me after funeral, and guess what happened yesterday, I received fedex package with her panties… and they were still wet. I mean, that’s to much for me. Don’t get me wrong, I would do her, but I just cannot imagine my best friend Mike looking me from above saying… ‘and that was my best friend’ …
Change topic after few minutes, and get to know them.. If they are coming bck on opener, transition to direct
Actually, I didn’t came here to talk about my dead friend, I came because you are so damn sexy, and I am going to get to know you… so tell me something about yourself
5# Does Size Matters?
Hey girls, lets me ask you something.. does size really matters?
Girls : yes/no
You :Interesting, because friend of mine has this huge, huge (pause) car, and he gets none, while my other friend has this tiny, tiniest ( pause) vespa and he gets all of the girls… whats up with that?
This opener will always get them think about..hmmm… but that’s why you move to something else. I found it very effective after 3 minutes, to transition to direct
Actually, I didn’t came here to talk about my stupid friend, I came because you are so damn sexy, and I am going to get to know you… so tell me something about yourself
When you open with something like this, and conversation either stays too long in that topic, OR each time you try to change topic, they go back on opener, use this above transition. Its very Powerful frame destroyer.
Wide & deep Rapport from here (so what kind of music you listen)? |
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| Posted: Fri Apr 04, 2008 7:09 pm Post subject: |
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| lovin the bank robber one. Did you come up with that one? |
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hollywoodinpa
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| If I'm correct Bobby Rio is the PUA whom came up with it. I'm glad you enjoy it.... I post alot of good things from my PUA friends. Well that is if I feel you guys will learn from it. |
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| number 5 is a good one! lol |
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hahhaha yeah, they are very good!
but number five is even more interesting, because surely they will think about penis..and then you can caught them..by saying they have a dirty mind or they are perverts..hahah |
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haha these are really good, i deffinately gotta try a few, there r just a few minor modifications that could be implemented here
example: (hey girls)- u'r better of saying "hey guys"
also: (let me ask you something) just say "i got a question"
other than that they are very good, i love the bank robery one |
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always new material on here=D
thanks guys |
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mozyFresh
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I thought it was badboy who came up with the bank job opener.
I like it and the does size matter opener but i've never get round to using them, still enough time for that. |
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Dude... i'm stealing your bank robber opener for sure.
If I see other bank robbers out there... say hi, so i know you're a member here too |
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| Posted: Thu Apr 10, 2008 3:35 pm Post subject: Re: 5 Good Openers |
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| hollywoodinpa wrote: |
3# Oral sex
Hey girls, Let me ask you something (pause) Oral sex on first date (pause) Yes or No?
This is my new one. They get shocked because you are so bold. I usually fallow up with a story :
See, they did study about this in Cambridge, and they found out that couples that had oral sex on first date, stayed together very very long time. Some of them even got married. And I have this date tomorrow, and I would like to have something with her, but, I really don’t want to get married. do you believe in this bullshit, or you fallow your instincts?
Changing topic here is very easy. No need to transition to direct, as you are already there.
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WHAT!Openers are a terrible way to talk to a women. If you are a TRUE alpha male you will already be confident enough to talk to a girl, without using some rehearsed line! Without asking her if she would agree to giving oral sex on the first date!
If you have used this line and got a girl that is attractive, intelligent and has a good outlook on life as opposed to a girl who thinks fellatio is a hobby and her apartment is littered with empty condoms then well done![/quote] |
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Liked the first one except the music part, as talking about casual thing like that is fucking boring
The second one was really interesting, original and fun, ill have to remember that, its really awesome
Oral sex... i dot think so, can't imagine this stuff to get positive response from a NORMAL girl (maybe it because of culture differences)
Friend dies... that is fucking horrible, not funny and makes you look like a creep.
Size matter.. i would never use this one as an opener, its creepy. they might think you are some kind of freak... As a routine maybe, when you gain some rapport
Are you sure you have field tested all of them? Or just the first two?  ) |
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Tyler Dom
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| cain25 wrote: | Liked the first one except the music part, as talking about casual thing like that is fucking boring
The second one was really interesting, original and fun, ill have to remember that, its really awesome
Oral sex... i dot think so, can't imagine this stuff to get positive response from a NORMAL girl (maybe it because of culture differences)
Friend dies... that is fucking horrible, not funny and makes you look like a creep.
Size matter.. i would never use this one as an opener, its creepy. they might think you are some kind of freak... As a routine maybe, when you gain some rapport
Are you sure you have field tested all of them? Or just the first two? ) |
I see I am not alone! I have only just read that friend dies one and I am so shocked! I lost a friend a year ago, and I think you are scum to the world. I feel sorry for what ever heartless women is seduced by your bullshit lies. |
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mozyFresh
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They've been feild tested by thousands of people, they must open well otherwise they would'nt be so popular.
I would'nt use the oral or the friend dying opener, but i can see the bank robbery one being gold in the right enviroment. I also like the does size matter one too. |
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| mozyFresh wrote: | They've been feild tested by thousands of people, they must open well otherwise they would'nt be so popular.
I would'nt use the oral or the friend dying opener, but i can see the bank robbery one being gold in the right enviroment. I also like the does size matter one too. |
I am sorry but I don't know why people use these! I have a lot of success through direct approach, i.e. Hey how's it going? 4 words!I can see the bank robbery line working on a female version of Jason Statham (Transporter)! |
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It depends, if your looking fly and confident, and you know how to flirt (say you sit down by some girls outside a cafe' and say it. For e.g) they would know that you cant be serious and just playing. I could make it work anyway.
Im a fan of the simple openers too, rather than chattin shit about my little ponies. The thing is when you open with something like 'how you doing' you always need some sort of good follow up to start intresting conversation. My favourite opener is 'are you friendly?' |
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