Thanks shahanshah! I'm getting there slowly!

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haha same! very slowly!

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Quick Update.

No Game today, it's been raining a lot lately. I just went to the university for my classes.

Targets.
- Little Miss Sunshine: I'm supposed to see her this weekend to get an ice-cream together.
- Bus Girl: FLAKE.
- Miss Sunset: She added me on Facebook (1 week after). We spoke about her taking me to the Sunset parc when we first met. I need to set a date with her. I WANT HER.
- Carnaval Girl: I got her HB5 friend's number to plan a restaurant but dunno if I'll follow up on this.
- Japanese Dory: Problem is, I don't know when I can see her at the university. She lives really far from me. I might try to ask her out for a movie.

Classes.
Most of the students were really young (17 to 20yo), I was a bit surprised by that. Anyways, I was relaxed and spend my time speaking to another German exchange student: HB8. I did not try to Game her though. I know she has a boy friend. She allowed me to DHV a lot in front of the class. By the way, the classes were really cool, the professor is a magician and told us that magic tricks could not work without Psychology.

Miss Sunset.
I want her. I mean it. She is beautiful, she's young, she's HOT, she lives at 5 minutes from where I live! When I approached her, I told her she should take me to the sunset parc so I could take picture of the sunset. She agreed and asked me to write to her. Unfortunately, she took 1 week to accept my friend request! So I don't really know what to do right now. Should I build more rapport with her? One week is a lot of time... I think I'm going to write her on Facebook about the sunset and ask for her number so we can plan everything.

I want a date now. Really. I want to kiss someone.

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Uhhh-OOHhhhhhh ONE-ITIS!!!!! Hahahaha go ahead deny but it is what it is! haahahah

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dude nice play,I wish I was you Brazilian chicks are hot. Becareful of being stuck on LMSunset ie oneitis lol anyway keep it up PUA Daniel

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Guys don't worry, no one-itis here. I just love women and sometimes need to express it

For now, I have nothing, I have to take LMS and Miss Sunset on a date to build something.

That's the next step.

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Quick Update.

Here a small post on classes and Game in general.

Classes.
I've got some classes of psychology and philosophy here. I love that. I've already learned some game-related stuff in my psychology class. The professor has done several magic tricks and told us it could not work without psychology knowledge. Basically, if magic tricks work so well it's because the magician is really good at framing his audience. He makes us believe that what he is doing is impossible, he makes us focus on what he wants us to focus on. In the end, it's like PU, it's all about making the target fall into your frame. Building the right frame, that's a skill I want to have.

Falling in the frame of Princess.
Something strange happened today. Remember the carnaval? There was two French girls and one was shit testing me a lot. I did not pay attention since she was not a target to me. Today we had a great friendly (yes friendly, nothing more interaction. We have some stuff in common so it was nice to speak with her. She the "princess" kind of girl. On Carnaval, I was the king since I was at the center of all the interaction, but she did not fall entirely into my frame though. Today, she owned me. I was the one who fall into her frame... I started to like her and to want to fuck her.

What happened.
We were eating together with some friends, at some point, the two French girl started to speak about "Princess" spending the night with someone. Dunno what happened but I started to be in my mind. I was not liking what I was hearing. Some frustration came up... but I handle it (thanks to meditation). I started to like her and want her. Nothing so anormal, but I had a really strange feeling in my chest... this feeling fueled my ambition, determination, motivation... whatever you call it.

Then I realized one thing. I did not come to the Game because my gf dumped me (I was not even happy in this relationship) but because... she started to see someone else. Similarly, I got LMS's number after seeing a picture of my ex-gf with her boyfriend... I don't know what this feeling is actually. I just know it is negative, maybe AFC, yet it moves me forward as never. Is it jealousy? Envy? Maybe I just don't want to be left aside... I just don't know. It makes me sad/frustrated on the first place but then gives me an insane amount of motivation. I'm discovering a lot of strange things about myself lately...

Can you relate to/explain this?

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LOL at people saying "oneitis", try "Enthusiastic". You can tell when people actually know what they're talking about.

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DAY 47: new bus stop solid number close.
Too easy to be good game?

Context.
Hit-8 challenged me. I have to have tried at least one day game kiss-close until Friday night. I like the idea. It's forcing me to push my limits. Right after we agreed on the challenge, I went to the university.

Addressed issues.
- Inability to kiss close.
- Difficulty to number close properly.
- Inability to be sexual in conversation.
- Poor teasing game.

Strategy.
The opener does not really matters, I just need to build enough comfort and attraction to go for a small kiss on the lips.

Goals.
Kiss a girl I've just approached on the lips
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It was raining but it was okay. I had a good mindset. I arrived at the campus and saw a girl on the bus stop. She was by herself. I went for it.

Approaching.
I'm not going to go through all the details since there is nothing new here. I opened as usually.
ME- Oi, do you speak English
HER - No. [smiling]
ME - Okay, I'm going to try in Portuguese though... Do you know where does the bus *bla bla* stop?
Typical... I should try something else as an opener.
We started a conversation. Key elements:
- We shook hands. I did not ask for her name, but I introduced myself.
- Since I was the first French guy she's met in her life, I did the claw, hugged her and gave her a kiss on the forehead.
- Asked her to guess my age, she said 26. She is 23, like me.
- It was raining, I don't have an umbrella. She told me that she would give one to me if she sees me again. Told her that if she wants to see me again, she should take my number. I got hers too. # close.
- In the bus, I took her hand and noticed the manucure, negged her.
- Took her hand in mine to compare the size (she was saying that she has large hands)
- I got off the bus, kiss her the Brazilian way: fat kiss on her right cheek. Told me she would call me to get a drink.
- The body language was good, but now that I think about it, the eye contact could be way better.

She is a 23yo HB6,5. I'm not that interested but that was a good practice. I made some mistakes here but the closing was solid (not like before).

Results: a # close, no kiss close.
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About the strategy.
- I should change the opener... I ask if she speaks English, but she does not, I end up speaking a perfect Portuguese for 20 minutes... That's no congruent at all.
- I should be more sexual: hold eye contact, hold the tension...

About the Game.
- I should speak less about myself: I said I did not like beer, I should let her speak and stop giving her reasons not to date me.
- I should try to go direct.
- I only open girls who are by themselves: I have to practice on 2-sets and more and do it in public.

Too easy to be good game?
Okay, something is wrong here. Everytime I went for a number/facebook close, I got it. That's a 100% ratio for now. There's a problem here. Are Brazilian chicks easier to game? Am I doing something wrong? Dunno. But that statistic shows something: I'm not going far enough. I should get out of my comfort zone and go direct/sexual. In addition, I have to see how many # close does not flake. For now, I have no date. I need to be sure that it is clear that I'm wanting a date with them.

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Daniel, your number close ratio is freaking impressive!

I do believe you should try to get out of your comfort zone if number closing is becoming easy...

Have you tried the idea of an instant date?

Such as... After you've number closed her. Ask her to go grab a coffee? Sell it as an exciting opportunity... Then escalate, isolate and kiss close her behind a building when you are walking her back?

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Yeah, I need to do something here. It's really strange. Maybe it's cultural, people are just nice and give their phone number easily... I don't know. I think I'm going to try direct and instant dates. I'll push the interaction further since I still have a wriggle room.

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If you want to change your opener to improve your game, ok.
But I don't see any flaw in your current opener...
Do you really think that a girl would realize "He asked me if I spoke English in the opener and then he started speaking Portuguese"... lol...

1) The girls never remember the opener! They remember the clothes, the face, the attitude, the body language, the attraction, the comfort, the vibe... The words? Not really...

2) You are a foreigner! You asked if she speaks English because you know English better than Portuguese!

What makes you think that the game should be difficult? This is probably a good time to reflect on your dreams. A while back, you wrote:
Do you know anybody in real life who goes out during the day, SEEKING to kiss or fuck a girl he just met? In my mind, these guys fall into 3 groups:

1. The commercial pua who needs to prove for marketing purposes that his day time k close can be achieved 5 minutes faster than the next guy.

2. The desperate and creepy guys with no lives who need some sort of closure RIGHT AWAY because once the girls find out about his real life, he knows they'll tell him to F off.

3. The students of #1 and #2 who are completely lost.

You do not belong in any of these 3 groups. If you REALLY connect well with a girl during the day, then fine, maybe just keep going with it but I see no reason to push yourself for the sake of pushing yourself. Get that number, plant some 'date fantasies' in her head and be confident and secure enough to know that she's in the bag. In my opinion, you're not missing anything in your game other than following through with your #'s and setting up dates. You have so many contacts already! Happyslip was probably just kidding but you don't have oneitis. You have FIVE-itis . . .or is it six-itis now? Call them, set up dates and just continue getting those numbers. You will soon reach a point where you won't have the time to collect numbers. (You might have reached that point already . . . you'll only know once you follow through with those numbers)

The night game is a bit different because people drink, dance, and the energy level is high and scattered . . . people expect a little fantasy and craziness. Going for the k close and more in this environment is fun and many people expect it.

If you want to change your dreams, go ahead; these things can always change. However, if your dreams above are still relevant to you, then continue with tasks/goals that lead to those dreams. Don't let the tasks/goals of other people's dreams get in your way.