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Hybrid13
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Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:25 pm Post subject: |
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Please tell me the honesty route is not that you told her yes, I can't tell you how to live your life, but I can tell you my experiences, If you do have a crush on her I am guessing saying yes feels really right even though she is with your friend, it sounds like she is trying to get an invite to hang out with you,that is what makes me fear you said yes
I know what is gonna happen cause I have seen it and been involved with the situation tons of time, so Instead of telling you not to do it, since in your state of one-itis you wont listen, I am gonna tell you what is GOING to happen
You will go after girl
Everything will seem perfect about you two
She will leave friend for you
Friend WILL find out
Friend WILL feel VERY heartbroken and betrayed, by her, but mostly by you
You will make up reasons in your head why he is wrong, why he didnt deserve her
These negative thoughts will lead to a very genuine dislike for him and vice versa
You will never be true friends ever again
and the girl will turn out NOT to be the one...everytime
So if you prefer to "follow your heart" never claim that you didnt know you were throwing away a friend, mind you probably a friend that is way more valuable and true to you than the girl could ever be
I am not judging you, Just making it perfectly clear how big of a mistake this is |
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lucky1990
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Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:40 pm Post subject: |
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| lol standard play from her....a guy she isn't interested in told her he has a crush on her....she completely ignores it and talks about something trivial! |
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lucky1990
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Posted: Thu Nov 05, 2009 11:43 pm Post subject: |
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man i don't think it was any sort of invite or look for an invite...if she was interested she would have said something flirty back!
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Hybrid13
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Posted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 12:15 am Post subject: |
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"How are the fireworks where you're at?"
c'mon how do you think this girl isnt setting the guy up for something like
"Why don't you come find out"
girls game guys just as much as guys game them |
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Hybrid13
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Posted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 12:16 am Post subject: |
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| And if she was not at least a lil interested she probably wouldn't have asked him about his crush |
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lucky1990
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Posted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 12:20 am Post subject: |
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some girls like to feel in control...they like the ego boost, which she now has!
and its after 11...fireworks finish around then or before so there was definitely not gonna be an invite!
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Hybrid13
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Posted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 2:32 am Post subject: |
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| Sorry, Western U.S. .... lol Major time difference |
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crazy1320
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Posted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 4:00 pm Post subject: |
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dont worry lads i would never betray my freind
but this is not really pua in all honesty is it , its more school kid crushes and such
besides i dont see her leaving my comrade any time soon
i think perhaps "how are the fireworks" is more of an invite in the USA than britain
i think it was meant in a literal sence |
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Hybrid13
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Posted: Fri Nov 06, 2009 5:54 pm Post subject: |
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Yeah, In the US I would consider it fishing for an invite
I have had tons of girls fish for invites like that on the 4th of July in very similar ways
and every time they came and watched my fireworks |
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crazy1320
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Posted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 11:48 am Post subject: . |
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kinda makes me want to be in the US
pua stuff seems more entrenched in peoples minds over there |
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MHFenix
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Posted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 1:14 pm Post subject: |
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| EDIT: never mind, didn't realise there was a second page. |
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Double J
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Posted: Mon Nov 09, 2009 12:24 am Post subject: |
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| This question is pointless, friends girls aren't viable targets. Be ashamed if you think other wise... |
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