Getting a girl to respond back to your messages on a dating site is probably the hardest thing to conquer when it comes to online sarging. Why? Because women always get the "hey what's up?", "ur hawt!", or "Hi my name is... (follow by a boring life story)" messages. However, I came up with a message that has gotten me a 100% response rate.
I'm being serious; I sent this message to about 50 girls and they always responded back to me with something. Now I know a lot of you are wondering what I sent to them. Well I don't want to give out the exact message word for word because I don't want dozens of guys potentially sending the same message as me and it blowing up back up in my face.
HOWEVER! I'll give you the formula that way you can come up with your own unique but yet equally effective opener.
Headline: have a unique headline that DOESNT start with an "H" such as "Hi" or "Hey". Their inbox is already full of the crap.
The message is broken down in 3 sentences:
1. Point out her good looks in someway.
2. Bring up the fact that she probably gets generic messages all the time from guys. (ties in with the 1st sentence b/c g'looking girls get the most messages.)
3. End it off by saying how old/boring/lame it must be to always get those messages.
So it's an opener about openers. What then happens is the girl either responds right away, or she looks at your profile to decide to respond. Great, you got her attention. However, you need a good strong profile with great pictures to convince her to respond back to you. I'll cover that in the future.
Now do I always get their facebook or numbers? No, because sometimes the girl may lack a personality and she'll give a boring response. I NEVER respond back to them, and sometimes they'll actually send another message to get a conversation going.
9/10 times, the girl will agree, laugh, and then engage you in a conversation. From there I have a quick convo, tell her I must jet but the best way to reach me is facebook. I ALWAYS get their facebook with ease, but that's because I have a good alluring conversation with them.
From there, talk on FB chat. How I get their numbers from here and on the phone with me is very easy. I mention The Cube game. They want to play, but then I recall it needs to be played with their eyes close. They get disappointed so I say give me your number, I'll call, and we'll play (as if I'm doing them a favor). By the end of the phone call she feels like she knows me forever and wants hang out ASAP.
This isn't something that I pulled out of my ass overnight. It took a lot of trail and error with both the opener and the profile itself. And like I said, a good strong profile is a must and I'll explain what I did with mine later on. I've done this opener for about a month now and have about 40 new numbers in my phone and some one texting me every minute.
Here's a few examples of the responses I get:
"lmao yes finally someone understands. honestly i made my profile a week ago and i'm already sick of this thing." - she did delete her profile, but I was able to her fb and #
"Haha doesn't get that old
Whatsup? I'm Jamie your new internet acquaintance ha"
"Yeah, I cannot stand poor grammar filling up my inbox all day lol.
How are you? I'm assuming your name is Zack? I think?
"Ha what can I say, I think it is the blond hair that really gets them. Anyone that spells hot "hawt" needs to delete themselves from talking. It is incredible how many people have the lamest pick up lines and can't correctly spell. Ha those are my options in life I guess. I guess I fail? Ha, How are you today?"