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Parroting another PUA's "system" is a flawed concept.

This is human dynamics. It's a 'best guess' to a given scenario.

To me, the secret is absolutely enjoying talking to people.

The more people you talk with, the better you can interract. The more you interract and the more natural your game will be. There is NO replacement for experience. In night game, I prefer to have a wing, or at the very least a pawn. In daygame - I sarge solo.

The key to all of this is the human dynamic. Why is she saying what she's saying? What are her non-verbals telling you? What do you cold read about her? The only way to learn that is to actually engage with women and pay attention. Read to improve and LEARN CONCEPTS, go out and actually employ them.

I don't prefer one meothod to antoher. There is ONLY one method for me... MY method. I've incorporated PUA advice from years and years, and coupled that with actual experience.

Two years of HARD sarging since my divorce. Two years of getting more in depth with 'game' than I dreamt possible... 60+ in 2 years. 30 this year alone to date. It's not about the lines, about the gimmicks, about the books... it's about making yourself into someone who can be comfortable with people in general - confident around women, natural around women and can project a sexual chemistry...

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It's not about the lines, about the gimmicks, about the books... it's about making yourself into someone who can be comfortable with people in general - confident around women, natural around women and can project a sexual chemistry... RR
Well said RR, I agree 100%

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All guys that start with "game" do it so they would have more women in there lives.
There is a marketing trick that you need to focuse not on the ladies but on the game itself. That is complete crap. The game is a tool not the purpoce. Why do you think its even neccessery to have an 85% success rate? I dont see why I would even waste time convincing or "gaming" some chick that doesent like me initially even before I know how interesting person she would be to me. More often than not you dont connect with another person on a friend level. And if she doesent think youre sexy why the hell would you invest all that effort?
I use 60YOC and its great. Simple and gives you excelent results. That is the way a real seducer would act. Not: oh, no I cant kiss her i need to build attraction first by beeing hard to get... MM is a waste of time and mental mastrubation. It can help some people, but not if it is taken too seriously. All this success with women is not that big of a deal to need an 85% success rate...


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I feel like Pickup has diverged into two roads:

A) The self improvement be the best you you can be road (the road I'm pushing myself down)

and

B) The I-wanna-fuck-everything-that-has-boobs-and-an-ass-and-I-will-manipulate-anybody-in-any-given-way-to-get-there road.

One will lead to a better life, more friends, more money, more girls, and an improved sense of happiness... While the other leads to more sex at first, in the long run it leads to shitty low quality friends and loneliness. It's up to you which road you go down.

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I agree with Bedrock. I came to PickUp when I was 15, not too long ago. I watched the TV show and I thought it was awesome, so I wanted to do the same thing. But step by step, I looked at my sticking point and realized it was just the tip of the iceberg. I got to the bottom of some real issues, like my laziness, lack of social skills and what have you. What PU did for me, was more than just offer DHV routines etc. I thought it was a magic toolbox but I quickly discovered that there's much more work to be done and I'm still on my way. Without PU, I would've wasted my life away being the average joe, neither happy nor depressed. Just going with the flow until you die.

So I think PU is still important. Simply because routines only don't work. It forces you to change your life.


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I feel like Pickup has diverged into two roads:

A) The self improvement be the best you you can be road (the road I'm pushing myself down)

and

B) The I-wanna-fuck-everything-that-has-boobs-and-an-ass-and-I-will-manipulate-anybody-in-any-given-way-to-get-there road.

One will lead to a better life, more friends, more money, more girls, and an improved sense of happiness... While the other leads to more sex at first, in the long run it leads to shitty low quality friends and loneliness. It's up to you which road you go down.

Dude you can have both, it does not have to be exclusive, actually if you fuck everything, at some point you will grow out of it, and will have the right skill to pick up the right girl instead of just getting married and having kids with whatever has a vagina... There is not a against b, your logic is flawed, Manipulate(selling yourself) is not bad either, is part of self-improvement...I have manipulated women to workout, finish school, stop smoking, and stop caring about people think, be more confident etc... Usually the self improvement people are people that pull out that card cause they are really not good at pick up...(not taking a shot at you). Just my observations.

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FOOLISH, DELUSIONAL, NO MAN CAN GET 85% OF WOMEN HE APPROACHES........blah blah blah. REJECTION IS A PART OF PICK UP, DON'T BE AFRAID OF IT< EMBRACE IT! blah blah blah.

This is all the mentality of the pick up monkey, not that of the pick up artist. 85% is more then possible. If you are above average looking and are an artist rather then a pick up monkey. If you are going into an approach with the mind set that it's ok to get rejected, i'll just go up to 10 other girls, eventually one will give in, and even if there isn't one, hey at least I am learning something.

What are you learning, how to get rejected, what type of women will typically reject you? Play the numbers game and yes, you may get laid. Get used to rejection and yes it will not be so bad when it happens. Accept it as a certainty in the art of seduction, and you will NEVER become a true pick up artist.

If you are approaching random women without any reads, or without creating attraction and without having created the image of being a desirable man, then yes, 85% will be impossible.

Seduction is not about approaching random women and attempting to talk their panties off. I't can be a form of it, but this is a recipe to failure. You don't know if the girl is even attracted to you, you don't know if she has a boyfriend, a girlfriend, husband, hates men. Doesn't like your style...etc etc.


Women are emotion based, they wear their hearts on their sleeves, if you know the signs, they will basically pick you up. All you have to do is play the game.

Anyways this is something I feel needs to be addressed. I will be writing a well detailed post explaining how 85% and above is more then possible. I will write it within the next few days, I don't have the time at the moment.

I have had that ratio for years, It's not something anyone can do, but it is very very possible, with the right skill set, style, posture, attitude and looks.
Although I fucking hate posting in this clusterfuck of thread , this is how things are :

First of all what is 85% ?

85% of the women you approach you get to fuck ?

Yes , possible , but unlikely unless some of them are giving you overexertions , which to newbies may seem as cold approaching.

GoodLookingLoser approached 102 women and kept a log and fucked only 16. You can find him on Sleazy's forum.

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TVA claims that he does no more than 4 approaches (nightclub) before pulling a women home.

My magic number is anywhere between 1 and 15.

If I identify DTF women then I am 100% , if not then I get rejected a lot before pulling her out of the club.

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The problem is simple.

UNLESS YOU KNOW HOW TO SPOT OVEREXERTIONS or HORNY WOMEN THEN YOU CAN'T GET 85%.
yo man, thanks for talking about the "study" haha
it was 7, i believe.. 16 would be a lot. id be lucky to bang 16 girls if I approached 200girls. half the chicks we approach ARE NOT sexually available. Not to YOU, not to ME. there's nothing you can do. there's no techniques, witty comeback or ANYTHING you can do.

I've done every style game imaginable. obviously i what teach, i feel works best for guys that want to GET LAID. not dating. not validation game, etc.

it seems that the meaning of "getting the girl" seems to vary from person-to-person.. the definition has changed for me too. At age 17, it meant "she likes me" "she thinks im hot," at age 24 (i was still a pussy) it was "i got her number," today and the past 3.5 it means "banging the sh1t out of her"

it may seem like a matter of semantics perhaps, but I think you are onto something- all the students of the community actually have different goals. Not all of them are actually looking to get laid, most are just looking for a few dates and validation.
all the authorities actually teach different stuff. Some teach "dating" some teach "pickup" and some teach "GETTING LAID".. they are somewhat related, but certainly not the same. The process of GETTING LAID should a quite different agenda than "dating,". One requires courting, dinner, text game, phone game, witty comebacks... the other requires a physical escalation, condom and a pussy. again, different ballgame

this might come as a surprise to most guys that may assume, "wait.. we are all looking "get girls".. aren't we??" that's takes me back to the previous paragraph. "getting girls" probably should mean "SEX" GETTING LAID but it doesn't. going to dinner and paying is "getting the girl" to a lot guys. "getting her number" is "getting the girl" to a lot guys.. eventually you don't need the validation and "dating" stuff gets old.. guys move on and have the SOLE goal of GETTING LAID, and that's when it happens at a high level

sorry, completely disorganized reply :)
I appreciate you making reference to my at home "clinical" study haha

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I agree with Bedrock. I came to PickUp when I was 15, not too long ago. I watched the TV show and I thought it was awesome, so I wanted to do the same thing. But step by step, I looked at my sticking point and realized it was just the tip of the iceberg. I got to the bottom of some real issues, like my laziness, lack of social skills and what have you. What PU did for me, was more than just offer DHV routines etc. I thought it was a magic toolbox but I quickly discovered that there's much more work to be done and I'm still on my way. Without PU, I would've wasted my life away being the average joe, neither happy nor depressed. Just going with the flow until you die.

So I think PU is still important. Simply because routines only don't work. It forces you to change your life.
100% no lie, this is exactly what happened with me. Suddenly girls were interested in what I was saying, and I was the man... But then I realized I have more serious issues; no goals, no drive, laziness and lack of social skills like you said. Without it, I would be some average construction worker or shit (nothing against construction workers, that shit is hard). I would have died before I really got to live. But now I've realized my true potential and what I want and need to do in life.

I agree with everything you said, especially the last part.
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Dude you can have both, it does not have to be exclusive, actually if you fuck everything, at some point you will grow out of it, and will have the right skill to pick up the right girl instead of just getting married and having kids with whatever has a vagina... There is not a against b, your logic is flawed, Manipulate(selling yourself) is not bad either, is part of self-improvement...I have manipulated women to workout, finish school, stop smoking, and stop caring about people think, be more confident etc... Usually the self improvement people are people that pull out that card cause they are really not good at pick up...(not taking a shot at you). Just my observations.
No. I mean one leads to fucking and then self improvement, the other leads to just fucking (look at what How_R_U were discussing about the improvement part). Being a scumbag that manipulates women into bed and everyone else into shit or whatnot. I've seen it happen. Not to toot my own horn or anything, but I went down the first road and so did many other people that I know from here that started at about the same time I did. We were all excited that we could kiss close this or fuck that, but there came a point where we realized that there was something more. So, I was using these observations to make an opinion, therefore my logic is not flawed. I applaud you for manipulating women (and guys I hope! No homo) into doing such awesome things that really improve their lives. That's very noble of you, I can really respect that. And no worries about the shot thing or whatever, not taking that personally. For the record, and for the other guys that I know who say close to the same thing as I do, we are good at pickup lol. I had my experiences, but now I found the girl that I love and I'm out. I'm engaged. As far as I'm concerned, I won :)

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I agree with Bedrock. I came to PickUp when I was 15, not too long ago. I watched the TV show and I thought it was awesome, so I wanted to do the same thing. But step by step, I looked at my sticking point and realized it was just the tip of the iceberg. I got to the bottom of some real issues, like my laziness, lack of social skills and what have you. What PU did for me, was more than just offer DHV routines etc. I thought it was a magic toolbox but I quickly discovered that there's much more work to be done and I'm still on my way. Without PU, I would've wasted my life away being the average joe, neither happy nor depressed. Just going with the flow until you die.

So I think PU is still important. Simply because routines only don't work. It forces you to change your life.
100% no lie, this is exactly what happened with me. Suddenly girls were interested in what I was saying, and I was the man... But then I realized I have more serious issues; no goals, no drive, laziness and lack of social skills like you said. Without it, I would be some average construction worker or shit (nothing against construction workers, that shit is hard). I would have died before I really got to live. But now I've realized my true potential and what I want and need to do in life.

I agree with everything you said, especially the last part.
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Dude you can have both, it does not have to be exclusive, actually if you fuck everything, at some point you will grow out of it, and will have the right skill to pick up the right girl instead of just getting married and having kids with whatever has a vagina... There is not a against b, your logic is flawed, Manipulate(selling yourself) is not bad either, is part of self-improvement...I have manipulated women to workout, finish school, stop smoking, and stop caring about people think, be more confident etc... Usually the self improvement people are people that pull out that card cause they are really not good at pick up...(not taking a shot at you). Just my observations.
No. I mean one leads to fucking and then self improvement, the other leads to just fucking (look at what How_R_U were discussing about the improvement part). Being a scumbag that manipulates women into bed and everyone else into shit or whatnot. I've seen it happen. Not to toot my own horn or anything, but I went down the first road and so did many other people that I know from here that started at about the same time I did. We were all excited that we could kiss close this or fuck that, but there came a point where we realized that there was something more. So, I was using these observations to make an opinion, therefore my logic is not flawed. I applaud you for manipulating women (and guys I hope! No homo) into doing such awesome things that really improve their lives. That's very noble of you, I can really respect that. And no worries about the shot thing or whatever, not taking that personally. For the record, and for the other guys that I know who say close to the same thing as I do, we are good at pickup lol. I had my experiences, but now I found the girl that I love and I'm out. I'm engaged. As far as I'm concerned, I won :)

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I agree with Bedrock. I came to PickUp when I was 15, not too long ago. I watched the TV show and I thought it was awesome, so I wanted to do the same thing. But step by step, I looked at my sticking point and realized it was just the tip of the iceberg. I got to the bottom of some real issues, like my laziness, lack of social skills and what have you. What PU did for me, was more than just offer DHV routines etc. I thought it was a magic toolbox but I quickly discovered that there's much more work to be done and I'm still on my way. Without PU, I would've wasted my life away being the average joe, neither happy nor depressed. Just going with the flow until you die.

So I think PU is still important. Simply because routines only don't work. It forces you to change your life.
100% no lie, this is exactly what happened with me. Suddenly girls were interested in what I was saying, and I was the man... But then I realized I have more serious issues; no goals, no drive, laziness and lack of social skills like you said. Without it, I would be some average construction worker or shit (nothing against construction workers, that shit is hard). I would have died before I really got to live. But now I've realized my true potential and what I want and need to do in life.

I agree with everything you said, especially the last part.
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Dude you can have both, it does not have to be exclusive, actually if you fuck everything, at some point you will grow out of it, and will have the right skill to pick up the right girl instead of just getting married and having kids with whatever has a vagina... There is not a against b, your logic is flawed, Manipulate(selling yourself) is not bad either, is part of self-improvement...I have manipulated women to workout, finish school, stop smoking, and stop caring about people think, be more confident etc... Usually the self improvement people are people that pull out that card cause they are really not good at pick up...(not taking a shot at you). Just my observations.
No. I mean one leads to fucking and then self improvement, the other leads to just fucking (look at what How_R_U were discussing about the improvement part). Being a scumbag that manipulates women into bed and everyone else into shit or whatnot. I've seen it happen. Not to toot my own horn or anything, but I went down the first road and so did many other people that I know from here that started at about the same time I did. We were all excited that we could kiss close this or fuck that, but there came a point where we realized that there was something more. So, I was using these observations to make an opinion, therefore my logic is not flawed. I applaud you for manipulating women (and guys I hope! No homo) into doing such awesome things that really improve their lives. That's very noble of you, I can really respect that. And no worries about the shot thing or whatever, not taking that personally. For the record, and for the other guys that I know who say close to the same thing as I do, we are good at pickup lol. I had my experiences, but now I found the girl that I love and I'm out. I'm engaged. As far as I'm concerned, I won :)
Haha. Yeah, I'm good.

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