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I see what you're trying to do, but I don't fully agree. It may work for some, but others (like me) should go out without any expectations. This eases the pressure of trying to find someone to sleep with, and lets me just have a good time.
But if it works for you, keep it up. I suggest others try both methods, see which one works for you.
i agree and i often go out with the expectations to have fun, but if i get stuck in a cold streak rut i need to change my mind set i set a goal for the night. it always doesn't have to be to get laid but goals are positive things and it's never a bad idea to set them.