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PostPosted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 2:30 am    Post subject: " I just wanted to say you look insanely cute today/ton Reply with quote

I just tell them like it is. If I think a girl looks cute then I say that.. it comes off funny and confident. Opener done... simple as that.. Most guys wouldn't have the guts to say something like that to them, especially a stranger. She's probably going to stare at you for a second... then you say.. "this is the part where you say I'm cute too".. she laughs.. conversation can begin.. Pick Up 101 is awesome for daygame....
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 2:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've used this sometimes before I knew about the game, but once I got into it a lot of PUAs say you shouldn't show interest so early.

So which is the best way to go? Or does it depend on what style you play?
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 4:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

id use that... i guess its for easy openers just to start talking with a ger as practise... but farther on i dont think it will fly if you trying to get in her pants! PUA's are right its too early but its a different game!
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 5:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

seems like it goes against the core rules. I wouldn't use it.
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 6:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rules are meant to be broken, so don't be constrained by rules, be constrained by what does and doesn't work. I have seen guys do fantastic sarges by being far more complimenting and nice that you "should" be, but because of their style they are able to pull it off. Your game should be your own and only you can be 100% sure whether you can make something work or not. A lot of things that work for other guys won't work for me, because I don't believe it will work and have no confidence in it, or because it contradicts who I am and its obvious it isn't me speaking. I do well by calling some girls "hey gorgeous" or "beautiful" and its because of how I say it and the fact that it fits with my personality. Remember that only 7% of your communication is WHAT you are saying, the rest is how you say it with your tone and body language.
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 8:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hmm... i'm not sure about this one man. I don't like the way it sounds. I like how you said

"this is the part where you say im' cute to" thats nice thou.
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 4:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

WOW!! I finally see someone talking a bit about my game! "Straight to the point" openers have worked 90% of the time for me. But thats just my personality. I don't know how many times I have opened with, " WOW! You are absolutely beautiful!" (with EXTREME/OVER THE TOP drama) Then they blush, and they say "Why thank you!" At this point, they are putty. Then I say "Excuse me for being so forward, but I just HAVE to meet you!" (keeping up the EXTREME drama with a soft/calm voice)

NOTE: I do this at MALLS! Do not do this in night clubs. (% goes down in nightclubs -- go back to PUA game)

Then I say, "Listen, I know you are shopping and so am I. How about we go grab a soda, coffee, or tea. Sit down, rest a bit and meet each other? (while walking with her) If we click, you have a date for friday night. If we don't click, you got some rest and a free drink. Win win for both of us.

That's it! Straight to the point, calm/soft voice as to not sound threatening. No hidden agendas. She knows exactly why you are going for a drink! Now you move into funny/mild sarcasm mode.
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 4:48 pm    Post subject: It works for me Reply with quote

It works for me , straight to the point. Just leaviing to her to answer but you got the answer. Perfect!
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 6:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

definitely wouldnt work on a 10. the whole point of sounding uninterested is because they have those natural defenses to protect themselves from every guy that comes up and says that
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 8:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rockstarky said it best... "Direct" game is for those that have taken off the training wheels. Newbies should stick to the books for now.

And this HB1 - HB10 scale is horse s*it. I would rather use the go/nogo system. If you are interested, it's a go! If you are not, don't go. Thats it. Don't let some number scale distract you from approaching. The guy that only approaches HB10's is missing out big time!

I've been turned down from HB6's - HB10's. And hit a home runs with HB6's - HB10's. If you approach 10 girls, at least one will fall for you. But I guarantee you it will be more like 6-7. (I'm 30+ so speak from experience) The point is, if you like, go for it! Regardless of "Hotness" scale number.

Here's a good life note: I married an HB10! And then divorced an HB10. Just because she's HOT doesn't mean that you two will get along. I learned this the hard way. Go for girl that YOU like. Regardless of what you think your friends will rate her at.
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 02, 2007 9:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, the point of the rating scale ISN'T "will my friend's think she's hot"
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 1:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

i'd try it, it's kind of new for me though so i might fail at first...

what happens if they say no, they wouldn't want to go out with you... or they have a boyfriend, which i'm assuming you would get a lot? the point is to keep her interested a little even after she says no right, maybe she'll give in if you're being alpha enough and don't care too much about the loss... yea?

an example of what i might say:

HB: I'm sorry, I have a boyfriend
PUA: You know what, I respect that, but that wouldn't really stop me from complimenting you. Maybe we can get to know each other strictly as friends, you seem like you have more going for you than just your looks....

or maybe

HB: I'm sorry, You're not really my type...
PUA: *slight mysterious smile* Now that you mention it, you're not really my type either (neg)... I don't like dating girls who judge a person before getting to know them... well it was nice meeting you anyway *smile and act like you don't care because you shouldnt!*

at that point i'd walk away about a few feet to see if she'll come back towards me and say sorry or something...
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 1:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Casual wrote:
i'd try it, it's kind of new for me though so i might fail at first...

what happens if they say no, they wouldn't want to go out with you... or they have a boyfriend, which i'm assuming you would get a lot? the point is to keep her interested a little even after she says no right, maybe she'll give in if you're being alpha enough and don't care too much about the loss... yea?

an example of what i might say:

HB: I'm sorry, I have a boyfriend
PUA: You know what, I respect that, but that wouldn't really stop me from complimenting you. Maybe we can get to know each other strictly as friends, you seem like you have more going for you than just your looks....

or maybe

HB: I'm sorry, You're not really my type...
PUA: *slight mysterious smile* Now that you mention it, you're not really my type either (neg)... I don't like dating girls who judge a person before getting to know them... well it was nice meeting you anyway *smile and act like you don't care because you shouldnt!*

at that point i'd walk away about a few feet to see if she'll come back towards me and say sorry or something...


Ok, first of all, the first one is really AFC.

The second one isn't quite as much, BUT the whole "now that you mention it part" seems a bit try hard to me. Also, I wouldn't walk away and stop after a few feet, because she'd see that and consider you try hard too.

Try hard=AFC

See, a true Alpha seriously WOULDN'T care what she thought and would DRAW her INTO his reality. Then, when he walked away, he WOULDN'T stop OR turn around. Instead the girl would follow him and he would only stop once SHE STOPPED HIM, because she really does want him.
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PostPosted: Wed Oct 03, 2007 2:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

rocket929 wrote:
Then I say, "Listen, I know you are shopping and so am I. How about we go grab a soda, coffee, or tea. Sit down, rest a bit and meet each other? (while walking with her) If we click, you have a date for friday night. If we don't click, you got some rest and a free drink. Win win for both of us.



I don't like going this route, because you are pushing yourself onto her too much and you're giving her this easy chance to say no. Also, buying a drink for a girl you met is the same, whether it is in the mall, or in a club, you're just being AFC and trying to buy her time. If she buys her own, then fine, but flat out asking for a date on friday night so early is just so obvious and overdone that your intentions are boring. It sounds a lot more like Juggler Method, but minus the mystery of keeping your intentions to yourself until you have reeled her in first.
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 07, 2007 12:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

its total AFC but it works...it use to be all the game i had
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