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tan
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 Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 6:27 am Post subject: "Friends" who rat on your style |
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PUA Brethren...
I have a situation where I am having difficulty working out my next move.
What I believe happened is a "friend" of mine told HB9 that I am a PUA, don't really care and it is all a game. Unfortunately, this is one I do actually like!
We have had some fun, but no full monty... and she seemed absolutely smitten when I left her place on sunday morning. I have sent one text (no reply) and called once (which she rejected). I thought I had her locked down tight.
This "friend" has a history of doing things like this.
Any advice on how to counter such a rat play?
tan... |
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Slai
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Why did he do that? Did he try to go for the girl, or does he just fail at knowing whats beneficial to say and whats not? Or did he think it would be fun to mess up your game?
Either way, that just plain sucks. Id just set confront him and go "look, heres the deal: dont fucking do that anymore", or just not go out drinking with him anymore. |
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M
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| Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 8:37 am Post subject: |
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Hey Tan,
I have a friend just like that. We call him the Cock Block King. I'd actually approach and in a polite way, ask him to quit doing that.
Respectfully,
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Impact
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| Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 8:40 am Post subject: |
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find better friends!
haha
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jacked
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| I learned how to reverse these bastards tactics. Tell the girl you would like to keep a secret relationship because the "cock block" likes her so much, and since he's your friend you don't want to hurt his feelings because you care about your friends. Bammmm Booom Wammm he's simply destroyed. Tell her about how much the damn guy talks about her, make him look like he's all into her and you are just cool with her and just want to be friends. You know how I learned this??? lol I learned it the hard way, my cousin did this to me on a girl I actually liked in highschool, he mentally made her think I was so into her, and I actually didn't like the girl at all first, but he would make sure that I try and speak to her as more than friends by telling me to holler at the girl insistently I caught on later to his tactics. This is my cousins AMOG specialty game, he's an asshole lol but I love him ahhahaha. It was funny man, I didn't even like the chicks he did this on, but he managed to convince me to try and holler, and in the background he would look like the non-needy cool type, while I"m all "Can I take you out". AFC!!!! This is his game, and to this day he does it to all his friends. Family doesn't phase this cold natural amog lol. |
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Impact
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| Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 10:22 am Post subject: |
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Yeh alright jacked has some cool ideas.
But generally if you hang with people like that you lower your own value! why on earth would you want friends like that? or if you sarge than do it alone or something, or with better wing. |
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jacked
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| Posted: Tue Jan 30, 2007 12:02 pm Post subject: |
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| impact your correct bro. I am just saying from experience, my family is full of cock-blockers we live so close and everything is in competition from one another. I don't necessarily chill with my cousin, but I have called him on this, and he admitted to it. So I know it works first hand because I was the sucker lol. Tan should not chill with anybody like this, but it is impossible to know who and what your enemies are doing if you aren't close enough to them. You got to keep your friends close, and your enemies closer. My cousin basically an enemy I keep close, our families consistently compete, we all compete. |
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tan
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| Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 1:21 am Post subject: |
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Hey Guys...
Thanks for the advice. I like Jacked's idea of blowing him out.
tan... |
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