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Jiongo
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 Posted: Sat Jan 05, 2008 7:48 am Post subject: "Friend zone" |
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| Every guy hates that term that wants to get with a girl? Starts out as us being great friends. She would call me all the time to chat and shit. I would do the same because this girl is so fucking chill, almost like juno from the movie juno. Now we have kinda lost touch, not talking or seeing eachother as much. So any advice on how to get out of the "friend zone" ?The rest I know how to fix. |
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Mr.Right
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simple.. just get back into the swing of seeing her at least a certain amount... then turn on your charm and see what you can achieve in a day or evening. get the instead of talking about relationships, talk about sex and kinky things, but only in a joking way... dont turn into a perv. use kino as well  that will get that attraction back |
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Ka
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| Posted: Sat Jan 05, 2008 11:44 am Post subject: |
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Kino will be a huge part of turning this around if it can be done. The other part of it is too keep in mind that you are not her therapist or anything...she has girl friends to help her with her deeper problems.
Also you will need to control the frame with her and direct conversations to become more flitasious, more sexual in content...and do this without comming accross as creepy. |
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TheAmbassador
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| Posted: Mon Jan 07, 2008 3:59 am Post subject: Respect, Ka |
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I agree with Ka, as I've found that I do a lot regarding his various bits of advice...
Keep in mind, however, that there will be one moment that changes the zones, and it will be abrupt, perhaps a kiss close or a full out hookup....
When this happens you need to be ready and resolute, do not show any weakness or doubt, as this can cause her to react similarly
Good luck and post results! |
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