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PostPosted: Tue May 26, 2015 10:35 pm 
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I had a quick debate with one of my wings about at what speed a guy should walk to show he is alpha.

I usually walk quite slowly, as I don't really care about the things I have to do, because in any case I'm the alpha so I decide when to meet people, etc.

In contrast, my friend walks fairly quick, which shows that he is a requested person with not much time for stuff he doesn't want to do, thing that characterises him as alpha.


I was wondering what you think about all this.


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 Post subject: Re: How to walk
PostPosted: Wed May 27, 2015 1:36 am 
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Walking slower conveys higher status and shows you are comfortable in your environment. Walking quickly can display nervousness or being reactive to your surroundings. Look at the guys who have all the women. How do they walk?

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 Post subject: Re: How to walk
PostPosted: Mon Jun 13, 2016 4:21 am 
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Agree with Will...

In addition.. one of my favorite pieces of advice that I've received was "Walk like you've got a 12-pound dick.."

Basically apart slightly as you walk, but nothing ridiculous like you've been riding a horse all day.


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 Post subject: Re: How to walk
PostPosted: Sun Sep 04, 2016 7:05 am 
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I would not say this is imperative to walk slowly.
Walking fast can also look good and is helpful, to move from one place to another quickly !
A good example would be the hero of Limitless walking here (at about 15s).


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 Post subject: Re: How to walk
PostPosted: Wed Sep 28, 2016 7:02 pm 
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Relaxed is best. Consider the guy who runs the company, has 10 meetings a day and is moving quickly from one to the other to get shit done. He's hustling / working hard to keep the primary shareholder rich who's sitting on his yacht with 4 models...

The guy who's getting to the meeting on time so his boss won't fire him vs. the guy who knows the meeting will start when he gets there because he's chairing it and everyone works for him.

you get the idea?

Walking fast also says, "I'm stressed and don't have time for you." A sure-fire way to turn someone off before they ever get interested. I used to walk fast all the time. I know.


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 Post subject: Re: How to walk
PostPosted: Wed Sep 28, 2016 9:38 pm 
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I once read, "walk like you own the place".

Think you're fuckin Joe Pesci in Casinò.


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 Post subject: Re: How to walk
PostPosted: Tue Oct 25, 2016 1:10 pm 
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Working on the same thing. One piece of advice I got was to check out how male models walk.


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 Post subject: Re: How to walk
PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2016 12:42 pm 
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Working on the same thing. One piece of advice I got was to check out how male models walk.
Depends on your target. The male model walk probably won't fly so well in a biker bar.


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 Post subject: Re: How to walk
PostPosted: Thu Dec 22, 2016 6:23 pm 
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I would like to disagree with several points here.

I work with fairly rich and powerful people and maybe it's just how it is out here, but they walk fast. They have places to be, money to make, and people to look over. They're working to make even more money and living their dreams. For example, the owner where I work is a millionaire, has 2 private jets, multiple homes, has bad knees, is probably near his 70s, and walks faster than most people can jog.

The trick, maybe, is HOW he walks rather than the speed. He walks fast with his head down, and the way he does it gives him an air of authority and power. He looks important because he's hustling. On the other hand, someone in jeans and a t shirt would look like someone requested, so maybe if you're in a polo and khakis or better, you CAN hustle for value. Just don't look stressed, hustle with confidence.


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 Post subject: Re: How to walk
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I had a quick debate with one of my wings about at what speed a guy should walk to show he is alpha.

There is nothing about this conversation that is in anyway the most tidbit Alpha.

I can't remember the last time I consciously "thought" about the way I was walking let alone decided to have a conversation about it. I truly could careless.

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I think people taking steps to better themselves is pretty alpha. Beta is a mindset that you know everything because you have some measure of success so these guys are doing well. Some people DO walk funny lol


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I had a quick debate with one of my wings about at what speed a guy should walk to show he is alpha.
I can't remember the last time I consciously "thought" about the way I was walking let alone decided to have a conversation about it. I truly could careless.
Some people do walk funny and could need improvement.

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 Post subject: Re: How to walk
PostPosted: Thu Feb 09, 2017 4:52 pm 
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I had a quick debate with one of my wings about at what speed a guy should walk to show he is alpha.

I usually walk quite slowly, as I don't really care about the things I have to do, because in any case I'm the alpha so I decide when to meet people, etc.

In contrast, my friend walks fairly quick, which shows that he is a requested person with not much time for stuff he doesn't want to do, thing that characterises him as alpha.


I was wondering what you think about all this.
If you have to change how you walk you are not alpha to begin with.

You walk like you want to walk. Being smooth is more important than speed.


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 Post subject: Re: How to walk
PostPosted: Fri Feb 10, 2017 10:07 am 
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Don't give a flying fuck how others think of your "walk." Or anything else.

You're you. Do you.

By the way, this can also be applied to "how much eye contact should I give her", or, my personal favorite, "WHAT STANCE SHOULD I BE IN?"

Some Youtubers close from time to time DESPITE some of their stances which they think make them "look alpha" because they read it somewhere but actually make them look anything but.


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 Post subject: Re: How to walk
PostPosted: Sat May 13, 2017 6:37 am 
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It's more about your posture and attitude than the speed of your gate. You can come flying through like a boss and it won't look beta or weak as long as you have your shoulders wide and own it.

I had a friend who was total AFC and walked really fast. He was a lot shorter than me and I have long legs and walk pretty fast...and he still walked faster than me. But his walk was very non-masculine and nerdy. So you have to be careful that you don't have some walking style that is natural for you, but is totally conveying the wrong things about you.

I typically tend to walk slow if there is no need to get some place quickly or cover a lot of ground. Like everyone was saying, it just conveys confidence and calmness, like you are just taking everything in at your own pace without any concerns. Life will go at the pace you set for it.

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