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An easy one. Go up to a girl in the street. Ask her: Do you know where...look around and find something right where you are...the grocery store is?
She'll tell you it's right there, then do it again with another spot obviously right in front of you.
The third time, tell her, "Wow, you really know this area well. Then you must know a place where we can go get a drink."
hahaha this is awesome i am using it the next time i am out
I agree the planning is key ...thefear's program is ingenious and i have done something similar...I would just suggest he
starts with man -a stranger men that would be even more easier to start with...in fact this is kinda recipe for mastering anything...slice the difficult task into a huge number of small easily doable steps HOWEVER another key is persistency...
On the other hand i would like to tackle this problem from another side...
i discovered the majority of AA happens because:
1 ppl have rigid rules what should they do, what should they do next etc.
2 people worry what they should say...what they should say next, what is the most correct method
3. if someone gonna attack them physically if they do something inappropriate
Number 3 could be eliminated if you are physicaly strong or going out with a group of friends... with no 1 and 2 i will deal below
What is preventing people to approach and is giving birth to much anxiety is not that approach is difficult but they fear what do they say next, and they fear the uncomfortable moments of silence and others judging them for expresing themselves freely...
PEOPLE HAVE STUPID RULES which are making it so more complicated than it should be...
talking girls into sex can be pretty boring and the man losess his power that way..its kinda unmanly...you are much stronger and much poweful than her and you got to a beat around the bush and kinda play a nice guy and talk to her like her girlfreind- fuck that shit...
when you have no rules or if you set the rules that you are free to do as you like that you can say anything you like or that you DONT HAVE TO TALK AT ALL... THATS RIGHT YOU DONT HAVE TO SAY A SINGLE WORD, you dont have to strain for words, and you dont have to
talk at all this is much easier and more pleasurable and anxiety is almost nonexistent...you are not searching for a person to talk to - you have your male friends when you need that- you are approaching her to get laid so why talk in the first place...
just imagine your on a date with her already START TOUCHING HER , before or without saying anything(except perhaps a natural hhhhhmmmmm) if she starts wondering what are you doing just say well talk later after the sex
...then i will be in a mood to talk... and trust me it's lot easier to talk when you made the love to somebody then to a total stranger...
just approach and start looking her in her eyes or carressing her or kiss her or grab her by the ass...