Could anyone post a proven list of blindingly obvious signs from a target (during pickup) maybe not just hook point but some sure fire signs that it is time to go for the kill, AFC's will say playing with hair and play punching etc but there must be more subtle signs that the HB's who get hit on often display even if they try to supress the obvious signs.

Sarging loads and out of 5 dedicated outings last month f-closed 3 times.Sweet. It has taken harder work than needed though so need to pick up any shared obvious signs where i can close much earlier or just move on.

All help appreciated brothers !

I can give you a few that really show it (imho).

I am sure you have heard mirroring... but the more complex/detailed the mirror the better it will be. Such as...

When she makes an unnecessary movement to mirror (Like picking up a packet of sugar when you did.. but she doesn't have coffee) Culminating to when her breathing matches yours. (Yes this does happen, look for it. It is a sign she has entered rapport/state with you.)

Her face may flush OR drain color. It is all about looking for differences from when you first approached her.

Also, if you can actually do this... Watching her eye cues. If her eye cues change from one major topic to another then she is mucho interested in the convo and in you. If you don't know what I am talking about then seriously disreguard this part because you will just make an ass of yourself if you just try to "guess".

Hope that helped.
EvoJ

in my experience when a girl
is really interested in you she'll
open herself more to you, she'll
let down her bitch shield and be
more open to you...

in some extream cases a girl can
even be seen to "flush" this is an
extream IOI when the girl becomes
flustered by you, and really turned
on, when you start seeing her face
blush in a bashfull way and when she
laughs at you when something you
said isn't really that funny, thats when
you know. enjoy man

white_russian

cheers boys, all info appreciated, the more you know to look out for the better, all about the never-ending learning curve ; - )

Happy sarging to all bro's !

ah and all the best to you
Charisma#1

good luck with all the sarging
and dont be afraid to ask for
more help...

white_russian

I roll with the idea that everything is an IOI. So

But Im guessing your looking for a more definate list:

- She tosses her hair. (not just playing)
- Mirroring/mimicing
- Strong eye contact.
- Distraction guage (how easily is she distracted?)
- Smiling while your not really doing that much.
- She trys to tell her own stories.


There are various tests:

- Pause for a while in a story, do a take away or somthing, and wait to see if they ask for you to carry on.
- Hold out your hands and see if she puts hers in.
- Walk away for a while and sneak a glance back to see if they are whispering to each other / giggling.


Thats all i can think of now. These things i pick up naturally/subconciously. Just trust your gut instinct more than enough times its correct since your/her body language communicates so much that is not always concious to either of you. So its important to contorl what your thinking, cus often that will be communicated subconciously and she will pick up on it.

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