The key is to show false disqualifiers as necessary. This is used because she gets hit on 1000 times a day and has a set of judgements that she is going to test you on when you come up to her.
Basically, she immediately assumes you are there to hit on her and so she is going to judge you. If you falsly disqualify yourself then you shut down those automatic judgements of her's and you give yourself time to show her the real you. This sets you apart from the other guys and allows you to "pimp Yo warez" as it were.
You are now (Two people just talking (DHV's and Routines/ect) and Noone is trying to pick up anyone. BUT you are still doing KINO!) She is learning more about you and may even ask a few questions or return your kino AS she gets more attracted to you because she is getting to know all these great things about you.
She is now attracted to you because of your DHVs/Routines/Etc But she doesn't believe that you are attracted to her. So you give her a chance to qualify herself to you. Beauty is common ect blah. She qualifies herself and you are now "Won Over" start showing interest as a possible mate and you get down to comforting type stages. These are where you both know you are attracted to each other and now you are just trying to see if you actually LIKE one another. Continue with DHV's and build some rapport with emotional content and such.
THAT is why/how you use the "Not interested in you" stuff and when you change from being not interested to being interested.
I think
Am I right guys?
EvoJ