This pickup and seduction community has helped us a lot with the girls, with self improvement and it neglected a part that is very important.
It's about building a social circle and a lifestyle.
Most of us came to it with no clue with the girls and no clue in the social world.
We spent years polishing our personalities and most of the time, polishing our lives. But something most of us neglect is a social life, a lifestyle to integrate the game in and live it, instead of "just keep learning it".
I mean, who the f*ck really NEEDS to be able to get the kiss within the minute? Is that really a useful skill? Useful enough to try it on 20 girls, in order to "master it". Total b.s. IMO.
How many of us experienced that stincky feeling of being with a hot chick, looking around, seeing a group of friends having fun and thinking... "yea, I want that too, I'm missing something here". Having a chick may make you feel strong and indepedent (like a strong lone wolf).
But how fun is that? Let's get back to reality guys!! LOL
Another situation, probably worse, is when you have a cute girlfriend and there's so much to do with her, but at a point you realize that you don't have that lifestyle to keep yourself and the girl entertained. That doesn't mean she'll leave you, most experienced guys can keep a chick around for a while.
But, something isn't right and you feel it. You think to yourself (or imagine that your girl is thinking) : "If I'm such a great guy with a lot going for me,... how come there aren't great things forming aournd me? Why isn't there enough great people, great access to places and experiences?" Something isn't right. I hate that feeling.
And then you may dump her to go back to the adventure. Because that's how you have fun, from the first eye contact to the panties, that's your quest ! Once you have the chick around, you may get really bored. And that ONLY means you-didn't-do-your homework. We all put-off that lifestyle stuff for a long time until it's too painful to ignore.
That's why I packed up my shit and left the game years ago, keeping just what I need (my own game) (only checked the good ressources from time to time). I actually did my homework, prepared enough to have the lifestyle that can integrate me, my friends, my interests, my dates/ my gf.
It feels good to be in the other side and still curious about what's next.
Feel me?
