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| Author: | Dynamic12 [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 8:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Did I put my self in the friend zone or she gaming me back? |
I need serious advice here, I've never been this mind fucked from a girl before in my life. ( I consider my self pretty darn good at this) Okay so 3 months ago an hb8 opened me. All I did was give her eye contact. She said "What?" Blah blah I number closed. We texted the next day and she told me she had a bf. Which I found odd since she opened me but w.e. About 2 months ago her and her bf broke up. We started talking a lot. I mean text game every day. We decided to go a club where I was her "bf for the night" After that we hung out ONCE a week for the next 4 weeks I kiss closed everytime. She gave out simple iois like squeezing hand, eye contact, attentive listening and beliving all my bullshit. I actually began to catch feelings my friends started making fun of me saying I had oneitis (I kinda did) Last wednsday I introduced her to all my friends, everything went great. I dropped her off home and I kiss closed again. All the sudden shes been acting very distant. She denied 2 dates to hang out (saying she was busy) AND last night we had a conversation that worried me. Me: Quit playing hard to get HB8: I'm not playing hard to get... you're my friend. Me: So you make out with all your friends? HB8: Yeah, is that not normal? Me: Well not for me, but everyones different. I'm not judging. I guess I should try and kiss all my friends, that would be a lot of kissing though. HB8: Brb!!! Sorry HB8: (3 hours later) P.S I was kidding Me: Haha I knew that Then she kills the convo. I call her this morning she ignores the call. Now did I fall into the friend zone? Or could she be gaming me? We've kiss closed a total of 5 times. Maybe I'm a just a piece of meat lol. (Wasn't sure where to post this question mods can move if have to be) |
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| Author: | Dynamic12 [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 10:51 pm ] |
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bump |
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| Author: | Stealth1600 [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 10:54 pm ] |
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if the girl kept kissing me and then being distant, I would get pissed off and call it quits. Lease I say that without having any emotions wrapped up in the whole ordeal. I would recommend becoming distant yourself – more distant than her, and see what happens. |
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| Author: | Dynamic12 [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 10:57 pm ] |
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I was thinking about going for 2 straight weeks of not giving her any attention. No texting, replying to msgs anything. Straight up no lines of communication for 2 weeks. Suggestions? It's always the ones you like the most that seem to be the hardest. |
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| Author: | Dynamic12 [ Thu Aug 25, 2011 3:47 am ] |
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Any other suggestions? |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Thu Aug 25, 2011 3:05 pm ] |
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Maybe she's just experiencing buyer's remorse. Or, she's just a girl with issues. Why two weeks, man? Why not two months? Cut contact with her for as long as it takes for you to realize that she's not the ONLY woman on the planet. Find other girls, build attraction with them. Then, when you have enough perspective to deal with this situation IF you even want to deal with it, come back to this girl and game her with the proper mindset. Right now, your game would just be a train wreck. |
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| Author: | Dynamic12 [ Thu Aug 25, 2011 3:52 pm ] |
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Buyers remorse 5 times seems a little odd. It can't be that. Maybe she had a rough break up with her last bf (It's pretty recent) and has "commitment issues" now. The 2 week code is a mystery trick on resetting emotions. But your right in one perspective. If I kept trying now my game would be a wreck lol. |
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| Author: | bullz-i [ Thu Aug 25, 2011 6:45 pm ] |
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I would date around to give myself a better perspective (and kill developing oneitis). If she likes you she may snap into competition mode. If she doesn't, she won't care. Just don't tell her what you're doing. There could be a couple things that happened: 1. She was on the rebound and now is trying to sort her shit out emotionally. Perhaps her ex is still floating in and out of the picture and fucking with her head. Don't ask her. 2. She really did like you but your ramp up was too slow and she had time to dissect it to death before really being cemented. Especially If the kiss closes were predictable and expected; not passionate, lustful, and desired. Probably some of both. After knowing a girl for that long I think spending the night together is a solid goal- push the bar a bit. I probably would have tried to take her home and have sex- and if she wanted to slow down, I would have respected her for it. I don't see why you would introduce her to friends before having something solid (i.e. regularly fucking and her itching for exclusivity). The beginning is about 2 people, the more the less merry in my book. |
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| Author: | Dynamic12 [ Thu Aug 25, 2011 7:04 pm ] |
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Thanks for the tip, I've set my self up for 3 straight nights of sarging. I've never had much success KEEPING girls, I was always good at just attracting. And the reason I didn't invite her back to my place is because I still live with my rents. I probably should have said our ages. I'm 19 and she's 18. And she's one of those I only have sex with my boyfriends kinda girl. lol I'm going to fully take your advice though, best i've heard so far thanks a lot. |
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| Author: | Dynamic12 [ Sat Aug 27, 2011 8:08 pm ] |
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Just an update. I've killed oneitis by hooking up with 5 girls in the past 2 days. (going to a pary tonight to continue the trend.) she's been messaging me a lot now that im not showing her any attention so back to regular game. |
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| Author: | fearless123 [ Sat Aug 27, 2011 8:14 pm ] |
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I was with a girl like that. Almost identical situation. She even told me she had bipolar and depression. Girls like that are trouble for obvious reasons. She's so insecure with herself she doesn't even know what she wants. The reason why she's so wishy washy |
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| Author: | Dynamic12 [ Sat Aug 27, 2011 8:21 pm ] |
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Wanna know something ironic. She told me mental illness like what you mentioned runs in her family. So maybe that's exactly it. |
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