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Author:  arandomdude6 [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 1:42 am ]
Post subject:  Weird problem: TOO MANY girls...
Alright, I've run into problems where being a PUA is actually a bad thing. I've basically attracted all my female friends to me on accident while my gf and I were going through some rough times a month ago. The point is, my gf and I are solid again, but now I have all these PISSED OFF female friends who hate me for "leading them on." Seriously, one of them already disowned me and another one hates me cuz she actually admitted she loves me. And the rest are just pissed... lol. I'm not bragging in the least bit... In fact I want out. Is there a good method to make girls UN-attracted to you?! After all, they're my friends and I still want them in my life. I'm in an exclusive relationship with my gf (and have been for 10 months) so I wanna keep it that way for now. Advice?
Author:  TheFreshPrince [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 2:16 am ]
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"Accidentally" attracted them to you? How exactly did you do that? That will help point towards how you need to "undo" it.
Author:  arandomdude6 [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 4:59 am ]
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"Accidentally" attracted them to you? How exactly did you do that? That will help point towards how you need to "undo" it.
Ok I basically showed interest in all of them as dating material. And I had all the confident/dominant characteristics that girls are into. Basically, I didn't think before I attracted them. One of them loves me and thinks my gf is treating me badly, and that I deserve better (in other words, her). Of course, this girl happens to be my closest female friend... :(
Author:  TheFreshPrince [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 6:48 am ]
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I hear ya. Have you tried just telling these girls straight up that you're not interested in them?
Author:  M2 [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 8:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Weird problem: TOO MANY girls...
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Alright, I've run into problems where being a PUA is actually a bad thing. I've basically attracted all my female friends to me on accident while my gf and I were going through some rough times a month ago. The point is, my gf and I are solid again, but now I have all these PISSED OFF female friends who hate me for "leading them on." Seriously, one of them already disowned me and another one hates me cuz she actually admitted she loves me. And the rest are just pissed... lol. I'm not bragging in the least bit... In fact I want out. Is there a good method to make girls UN-attracted to you?! After all, they're my friends and I still want them in my life. I'm in an exclusive relationship with my gf (and have been for 10 months) so I wanna keep it that way for now. Advice?
I have this problem. I even wrote a post in general about it "Inadvertent game" Yeah- not fun, but if you internalize enough game, you just sort of start doing it on reflex. It's like having the Midas touch.
Author:  Don Draper [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 2:48 pm ]
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Well, I think that the fact that you did show some interest in them ,made them reciprocate it back to you.

Unless there is some intent from your side, the women aren't crazy to start showing interest just like that. So, admit that some of the fault in the creation of this 'problem' , as you say ,is yours too.

Now, my suggestion would be to be with the woman who makes you the better man than what you are currently.
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