Guys need some advice.
I met a girl in the gym last week Wednesday. I got her number. Thursday, I text her to ask if she fancied meeting up for a drink and something to eat. She was text back straight away yes sure.
We had some food in a resteraunt, good chat. End of the night she got taxi home, went to kiss her and she gave me her cheek. No full on kissing. 20 mins later, I get a text, "Hi just got home. Thank you for such a good time. I would definatly like to do this again
x" so I left it there. Sunday I text her "Hi Kay, hows your weekend going" at 1.30pm in the afternoon, I get a reply around 11.30pm, "Hi just got back from Liverpool. Getting ready for work. How was yours", I replied "Great, I went out with a few mates and stayed at the Hilton in the city centre. Are you free Saturday?"So, I got no reply. I went back to the gym yesterday around 9pm. I had a few beers with a friend before I arrived so I was feeling good. I gave her a call something like "Hey, how are you? I am at the gym, are you working out tonight?, she said yes, I will see you in half an hour.
So I was in the sauna, eventually she arrived, and I got in the swimming pool and I did what I thought you are supposed to do. I was using a cocky funny approach. Touched her on the shoulder as we talked, moved in closer, we could have kissed we were so close. Seemed to go great. Then she was complaining that her back her, I said let me help you with that, an offer to give her a massage. She said no I am okay, which I thought was strange. We swam a few lengths and then she said "about saturday, I cant make it, I am going camping with a few friends"
After than jacuzzi, in there we chatted about stuff. she starts complaining about her back again, I say are your I cant help, again no I am fine. Through the conversation we got onto talking about relationships and she was saying she always seems to attractive guys who are full of themselves which she doesnt like, wasnt sure if that was an indirect reference to me.
We went back to sauna, I then touched her lower thigh as I went out of sauna to get a shower. She didnt move away. Anyway, finally we were told by staff to leave as the gym was closing. I said should I meet you on the other side, she said no, I am going straight home, I am tired. Text me in the week.
What do you guys think, did I do anything wrong? I mean I gave her loads of eye contact, tried to look for IOIs. But she didnt seem to be taking the bait? More importantly do I forget about her now, or try something else?
....number close good start..
n roll off a bit...