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Author:  Gearoidx [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 3:54 am ]
Post subject:  Identifying IOI's and IOD's
I'm new to gaming and ain't great at reading body language.
Can someone give me some examples of IOI's and IOD's to give a girl??
Likewise can anyone tell me what IOI and IOD's girls use during gaming?? :)
Author:  Wawa [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 4:10 am ]
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Here are some common ones off the top of my head, there are sure to be some more/better ones around here somewhere if you search:

She touches you (women don't touch by accident, they tend to be very aware of their surroundings.)
She asks for your name
She maintains strong eye contact while talking
She smiles while engaged in eye contact/ while you are talking.
Her body faces you (shoulders, hips, and toes tend to signal where a person wants to go)
She offers to buy you a drink (my personal favorite)
When you hold her hand she squeezes back
She begins to mimic your body language (body rocking, posture, direction of shoulders)
She laughs at all of your jokes, even the terrible ones


Hope I could help. :D
Author:  Gearoidx [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 2:11 pm ]
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thanks :D
Author:  N1ck9141 [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 2:56 pm ]
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these are obvious ones women will show when they WANT YOU, thats around the attraction stage, u need to be reading body language so much more before this, in the comfort building stage, like these...

IOI's

Touch her hair around her ears
playful hitting
moving her straw up and down in her glass(it seems silly but watch out for it)
if walking move a little faster and she will speed up or slow down and she will slow down...

p.s. learn a few compliance tests there's a section on this...

IOD's (the bad ones)

She turns her head down and away,
strong eye contact with a friend (this is girl code unless u are locked in and she is smiling and laughing this is probably girl code for lets get out of here, rather than this guys cool i want him:P )
questioning your time constraint ...(most guys dnt get this one)
......but it means if u have said for example i cant stay long i gotta get back to my friends, and she says, arnt u meant to be returning to yr friend MAJOR IOD reminding u yr not meant to b here long...

hope these help
Author:  EddieFews [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 6:12 pm ]
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A true Natural interprets ever sign a women gives off as an ioi. The key is to assume attraction. If you already believe the women is attracted to you there's is nothing she can do to possible show signs of anything but interest.

I have a close friend that just turned 21 and has slept with 47 women. 22 in highschool alone. And he takes everything a women does as a sign of interest. Everything. He was at my house texting girls to come over and a girl was giving one word responses to everything he said. And he said " she wants me bad, she's just doing that cuz she wants me to try harder. Next thing you know her and a friend were at my house to bang us both
Author:  N1ck9141 [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 8:18 am ]
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A true Natural interprets ever sign a women gives off as an ioi. The key is to assume attraction. If you already believe the women is attracted to you there's is nothing she can do to possible show signs of anything but interest.

I have a close friend that just turned 21 and has slept with 47 women. 22 in highschool alone. And he takes everything a women does as a sign of interest. Everything. He was at my house texting girls to come over and a girl was giving one word responses to everything he said. And he said " she wants me bad, she's just doing that cuz she wants me to try harder. Next thing you know her and a friend were at my house to bang us both
this is silly advice in my experience, weather or not it seems to work for txt games, if u did this in a club and kept chasing a girl who was multi IOD you over and over, u totally destroy your social proof, and yr pre selection triggers weather or not u eventually win over that one set, u have destroyed every other set in the room or made them all twice as hard anyway...
Author:  DiaZepa [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 1:13 pm ]
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A true Natural interprets ever sign a women gives off as an ioi. The key is to assume attraction. If you already believe the women is attracted to you there's is nothing she can do to possible show signs of anything but interest.

I have a close friend that just turned 21 and has slept with 47 women. 22 in highschool alone. And he takes everything a women does as a sign of interest. Everything. He was at my house texting girls to come over and a girl was giving one word responses to everything he said. And he said " she wants me bad, she's just doing that cuz she wants me to try harder. Next thing you know her and a friend were at my house to bang us both
this is silly advice in my experience, weather or not it seems to work for txt games, if u did this in a club and kept chasing a girl who was multi IOD you over and over, u totally destroy your social proof, and yr pre selection triggers weather or not u eventually win over that one set, u have destroyed every other set in the room or made them all twice as hard anyway...
No.
With the mindset he is talking about, you dont constantly try to seduce her with your words or whatever - You know to yourself that "this girl wants to fuck me, but I decide if this shit is going down or not"

Now, a person with the midset wouldnt try to talk to a uninterested girl with intervals - He would assume that her pathetic pick-up ways have failed her, and she has blown it. Expressing this through your body lanuage shows confidence and that you are alpha.
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 10:01 pm ]
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A true Natural interprets ever sign a women gives off as an ioi. The key is to assume attraction. If you already believe the women is attracted to you there's is nothing she can do to possible show signs of anything but interest.

I have a close friend that just turned 21 and has slept with 47 women. 22 in highschool alone. And he takes everything a women does as a sign of interest. Everything. He was at my house texting girls to come over and a girl was giving one word responses to everything he said. And he said " she wants me bad, she's just doing that cuz she wants me to try harder. Next thing you know her and a friend were at my house to bang us both
this is silly advice in my experience, weather or not it seems to work for txt games, if u did this in a club and kept chasing a girl who was multi IOD you over and over, u totally destroy your social proof, and yr pre selection triggers weather or not u eventually win over that one set, u have destroyed every other set in the room or made them all twice as hard anyway...
Well... If you do the "assuming attraction" properly; you won't have to worry about chasing a girl around the club. She'd be the one chasing you
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