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Author:  Theososs [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 3:06 am ]
Post subject:  How should I proceed with this girl?
So an acquaintance of mine and this girl are together for like 1 year but their relationship is about to end in notime. On a party the other day I asked her her status and said "i have a boyfriend, kind of" and started talking about hiw she wishes to break up. Talked like 2 hours with her and really connected, have a lot in common. At the disco i started escalating kino with huge success, dance with her, did a good game on her, isolated but told her that i liked her but Ive got values and im not the kind o guy who dates girls who have a bf. I number and msn closed, and kept chatting with her. I really wanna hang out with her but I need he breaking up with him, i dont want a guilty concience... Anyways i was thinking of keepin in touch with her and she'd eventually letme know when she breaks up, if she's interested, and then id set a date with her. Need opinions.
Author:  Wawa [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 4:38 am ]
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If I were you I would keep in touch but stop the escalating until she is out of the relationship. Remember, you are a valuable individual and you can't tolerate her bad behavior. If you try running game now you will just get caught up in the emotions that arrive when she does break up, or even worse, she will associate those emotions with you as a stimulus. Maybe tell her that you LJBF because then she will feel more safe/comfortable and you still don't damage her attraction. Attraction is not a choice, but if you start DLV and feeling needy while she has a BF then it could have some bad side effects.
Author:  Don Draper [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 11:03 am ]
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Continue gaming her. Even relentlessly build attraction with her.

If you can get her attracted to you more than her boyfriend, that guy is gone before you can say Cristo.

Also, don't bring up the boyfriend again with her, that just screams some form of insecurity and meddling in her affairs, on your part. Trust her to deal with that. You focus on your end of the situation.
Author:  Theososs [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 3:47 pm ]
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What if she wants to talk with me about the BF,I think that wouldnt be good for me, should I respectedly tell her i dont wanna talk about him?
Author:  EddieFews [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 6:01 pm ]
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You just have to punish her for brining him up and she'll never do it again.

For example

I had this chick laying in my bed the other night, she says " I know guys hate it when girls talk about other guys but this my on my mind.... My ex boyfriend..." I said(really sarcastic) " hold on, let me pull up an chair. I guess it's time to play Dr.Phil" ( I go grab my computer chair; pull it in front of her and sat down in it with my legs crossed an said " now what seems to the issue". Her face got red, she got upset. I grabbed her and kissed her and havent heard a word about him since. Except when he started blowing up her phone while we were having sex that night. *Shrugs* :)
Author:  Don Draper [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 6:11 pm ]
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Yes. Tell her firmly and respectfully, that you are not interested in discussing him with her, you have better things to talk about, namely you and her.
Author:  Theososs [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 10:29 pm ]
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Ty guys, any other tips you'd like to give me based on your personal expirience?
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