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Author:  Guestafc [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 12:27 am ]
Post subject:  Few newbie questions connected to some situations I had.
Question 1&2:

Last weekend at a nightclub I saw some female acquintances and their male friend. Long story short the male friend wanted the HB that I also did, he was being needy as fuck etc, well I ended up "stealing" her from him. I only kclosed her and he didn't even see this so that's why the next situation is kinda weird.

Well then later outside the club when the night was ending and I was standing next to the male friend , he said to me "Fuck off" and pushed me very lightly(like a girl flirting wouldlol). I then said "why so hostile" with a smile cos I found it funny and he said "that's right, i am hostile." then I said "I said why." and he just ignored me so I went to chatting with my friend again.

Q1: What would you more experienced fellows done in that situation? I knew I could take him but I choose not to cos a) I'm pretty much of a pacificist(btw does that go together with being an alpha btw?) b) I thought it would be extremely uncool to seem like I was fighting for that girl I just kclosed.

Q2: I'm pretty good with women if you compare me to that giganticafc I mentioned before so shouldn't I be established as somebody he wouldn't want to mess w/? I mean how to not get shit from males in general over some girl?


Q3: Lately I've been just feeling really confident so I've been saying the "are you a spontanious person? and or "are you a adventurous person" line to female acquintances and then gone in for the kiss, it's worked and they've kissed me but only for a short time usually, then stopping and asking something like "so you just want fun?" sort of dissapointed and indicating that they would want something long term instead. I've usually replied "pretty much" or just ignored that and continued the make out but they go kinda cold/distant after a few makeouts. + this all has happened in a nightclub so I don't know how the question is even appropriate.

So how to avoid this? :P

Q4: Since I've realized how easy it is to kiss somebody, I've gotten kinda greedy and made out w/ 2 HBs from the same 6-women group that I'm friends with. Now there's still one thats a HB, she's the hottest one and I've even noticed she's been giving IoI's but when I met her I just never thought she'd be interested in me so that thought blocked me from realizing the IoIs until lately. So my question is am I/would I be seen as some kind of a manwhore/trophy guy among this group(Like Display Low Value, "everybody gets to kiss him" or smth) if I went for the best lookin HB too later?

Yeah, I know finding another female group would be the easiest way out but I'm not in any school SPAM so I don't have much social contact now and I'm not pua enough to do the street thing :D


Well this post was kinda long sorry but I've been wondering about these situations for a good while. Thanks in advance!
Author:  Don Draper [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 6:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Few newbie questions connected to some situations I had.
Quote:
Q1: What would you more experienced fellows done in that situation? I knew I could take him but I choose not to cos a) I'm pretty much of a pacificist(btw does that go together with being an alpha btw?) b) I thought it would be extremely uncool to seem like I was fighting for that girl I just kclosed.

Q2: I'm pretty good with women if you compare me to that giganticafc I mentioned before so shouldn't I be established as somebody he wouldn't want to mess w/? I mean how to not get shit from males in general over some girl?


Q3: Lately I've been just feeling really confident so I've been saying the "are you a spontanious person? and or "are you a adventurous person" line to female acquintances and then gone in for the kiss, it's worked and they've kissed me but only for a short time usually, then stopping and asking something like "so you just want fun?" sort of dissapointed and indicating that they would want something long term instead. I've usually replied "pretty much" or just ignored that and continued the make out but they go kinda cold/distant after a few makeouts. + this all has happened in a nightclub so I don't know how the question is even appropriate.

So how to avoid this? :P

Q4: Since I've realized how easy it is to kiss somebody, I've gotten kinda greedy and made out w/ 2 HBs from the same 6-women group that I'm friends with. Now there's still one thats a HB, she's the hottest one and I've even noticed she's been giving IoI's but when I met her I just never thought she'd be interested in me so that thought blocked me from realizing the IoIs until lately. So my question is am I/would I be seen as some kind of a manwhore/trophy guy among this group(Like Display Low Value, "everybody gets to kiss him" or smth) if I went for the best lookin HB too later?
Ans 1: Well, you don't *have* to do anything. What you did was fine, except that you shouldn't have asked him "why" or repeated that. You knew why, he was just not comfortable seeing you succeed with the girl he also liked. You could've just looked at him and said, "Relax, buddy. We are all grown-ups here." and smirked at him. He was behaving like a kid and you could have put him back in his place.

Ans 2: Well, that depends on the frame you're displaying. You could be Hugh Hefner and still some strong meathead would come and waste you. If you're showing a calm, strong and confident frame people tend to leave you alone because you display the message of "I am in control." and that's all that they need to know.

Ans 3: They're asking you, "Do you just want my body?" and you're replying with "Of course." Stupid answer. That's the point you need to display some selective sincerity, even fake it, if you have to. You have to assure her that you're not one of the hundred others who's main objective is to stick their tongue down her throats and get into her pants. (Even if it is) At the point, you need to look them in the eye and say, "No. This is just a start." Nothing more or less.


Ans 4: Just stop worrying and go after her. They might call you a 'manwhore' or a 'bastard' but that's just people's way of saying that you're doing things they can never do in a million years. Don't let others opinions affect you that much in life. Do your own thing and think your own thoughts.

(That felt like writing answers for a unit test. And I just gave mine. Damn. :wink:)
Author:  Guestafc [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 11:46 pm ]
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I understood ans 1,2 and 4 they were great, as was the third but something confused me in this.

>Ans 3: They're asking you, "Do you just want my body?" and you're replying with "Of course." Stupid answer. That's the point you need to display some selective sincerity, even fake it, if you have to. You have to assure her that you're not one of the hundred others who's main objective is to stick their tongue down her throats and get into her pants. (Even if it is) At the point, you need to look them in the eye and say, "No. This is just a start." Nothing more or less.

I really understand the logic here and I almost facepalmed at myself because I really was saying that in their minds. But what confuses me is that isn't the line "No. This is just a start." somewhat leading on(like a promise of something more - relationship or smth) and isnt' the whole point to be straight-forward and not lie about your intentions. As to not become the guy who gets drinks thrown at his face?

>(That felt like writing answers for a unit test. And I just gave mine. Damn. )

lmao :D thanks again dude!
Author:  Don Draper [ Sat Aug 20, 2011 5:38 am ]
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Well, you could say that, "Don't label it 'fun'. What we're having in this moment, is something more than just 'fun' and you know it." That could work.
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