Hey everybody,
I've seen there are already a couple of questions about the zone, but i think mine is a bit different, just let me know if this case is hopeless or not. Here is the deal:
3 or 4 years ago i took a new job. One of my co-workers is a real HB. I've tried to date her then but I failed. We went on a couple of dates but nothing happend. (this was in a time before i knew anything about the game and I was a serious AFC)
A few weeks later a friend of mine did succesfully date her, and had a relationship for over a year. In the beginning this was very painfull for me, but i rather quickly was over it. In the meantime i quited my job and only saw the girl when i was with this friend, builing up a good friendship with her. (not knowing the damage i probably did). After a while the two broke up, me seeing her once a month or something.
Now (so 2 years later) i went back to my old job, and starting seeing her more often again. I couldnt help the feeling that i still want to have her in my collection...or more.
For those of you who say that this sounds like oneitis, you could be right. I still have urges to other women, but she is kinda special.The thing is, im head deep in the friendzone now. This ofcourse has some advantages (such as new socialgroups), but i want to get out. Normally you would say more kino i guess, but i already have that with this girl, so...nagging?
Just to be clear, im not affraid to lose her friendship nor with the friend of mine. I only have on goal...
