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Author:  Kirin [ Wed Aug 17, 2011 4:15 am ]
Post subject:  Have you ever had an unintentional target?
So long story short. Went to a lake two weeks ago with a girl I liked, she brought her friend along.

The lake was pretty cold even though it was a warm day and the two girls wouldn't go all the way in so I told them to take my hand (one each) and take a "magical journey" with me. I was really targeting the girl I like and I know it would be major points.

Both of them ended up taking my hands and we went further into the lake. While the girl I like hasn't really responded to me after that trip, her friend posted on my fb today asking when I'd be back in town.

What should I do? :(
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Wed Aug 17, 2011 10:09 am ]
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bone her
Author:  safety [ Wed Aug 17, 2011 12:49 pm ]
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hahahaha straight to the point hey mack....

well you never know man, i have had girls get their friends talk to me when they wanted me... its a form of playing hard to get while still extracting info.
Author:  TheFreshPrince [ Wed Aug 17, 2011 3:31 pm ]
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Do you dislike this friend, or are you ok with either? I would be busy gaming both! ;)
Author:  Kirin [ Wed Aug 17, 2011 7:48 pm ]
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The girl I like is having some issues so I'm icing her. (She won't respond to me so I'm not going to respond to her.)

The only problem is that I find her attractive enough for a LTR.

Her friend on the other hand, not someone I would consider for LTR but she has a decent body. I rather make her a f-buddy but I'm afraid if I try she will tell the girl I like about it and then I'm screwed.
Author:  TheFreshPrince [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 12:43 am ]
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Her friend on the other hand, not someone I would consider for LTR but she has a decent body. I rather make her a f-buddy but I'm afraid if I try she will tell the girl I like about it and then I'm screwed.
Right. Screwed by the friend that is. ;)

Seriously, at this point, you don't even know if anything is going to be happening with the girl you originally liked, so... Why risk a great opportunity on the possibility that this other girl may eventually be an LTR. And who knows if she'll be a good LTR when you make her your girlfriend? Unless this is oneitis...
Author:  PeteNana15 [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 12:51 am ]
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Happens to me every so often. I focus on the girl I like and not on the random girl. I am not to nervous etc around the other one. Thus acting normal and confident.

Now this is a tough situation assuming that they are good friends. Continue to talk to both and if one leads to something either way, so be it.
Author:  Don Draper [ Fri Aug 19, 2011 5:53 am ]
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The girl I like is having some issues so I'm icing her. (She won't respond to me so I'm not going to respond to her.)

The only problem is that I find her attractive enough for a LTR.

Her friend on the other hand, not someone I would consider for LTR but she has a decent body. I rather make her a f-buddy but I'm afraid if I try she will tell the girl I like about it and then I'm screwed.
I would suggest you to stop going after both in the bush and try to get one bird in your hand.

Take one girl and focus on her. Ask yourself.. do you want a long-term relationship with the first or just a casual sex type relationship with the second?

Whatever is your answer, you'll realize the next step which has to be taken from here.
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