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Author:  SilkyJohnson [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 12:39 am ]
Post subject:  i have the hardest time creating interesting conversation
Maybe its because I am pretty boring at first. Once I get comfertable around certain people I am much funnier and its easier to be interesting.

Also my life is very boring right now. All I do is train like an anmal and girls don't give a damn about that.

Boring life+initial anxiety= boring conversation.

I am on route to changing these things but in the mean time how do I make myself appear more fun?
Author:  skills360 [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 12:43 am ]
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You are what you say you are, change your thinking i got depress just by reading your post...
Author:  EddieFews [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 2:21 am ]
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Change your thinking. Tell yourself, your lifes full of excitment, fun and adventure over and over again

Your thoughts become your words, words become your actions, actions become your habits, habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny
Author:  SilkyJohnson [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 4:14 am ]
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Change your thinking. Tell yourself, your lifes full of excitment, fun and adventure over and over again

Your thoughts become your words, words become your actions, actions become your habits, habits become your character, and your character becomes your destiny
There has got to be more to it than lieing to myself.

That's the complete oposite of my style. I'm brutally honest with myself.
Author:  Plays Upfront [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 5:03 am ]
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That's easy, make your life more interesting!
Go out to clubs more, and you'll find a development in your conversational skills
Author:  Vietman100 [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 6:03 am ]
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Like Fuze said, change your thinking...having a positive and charismatic personality will attract excitement and fun.

Not only go out to clubs more, but involve yourself in any social situations where you try to be that funny and interesting guy from the get go. Start a hobby that you're passionate about, or be adventurous and go somewhere you wouldn't normally go. Once you pit yourself in interesting environments, conversations with people will almost never be boring.
Author:  nsco78 [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 6:08 am ]
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also on top of everything everyone else said, I find that sometimes when I have nothing else to say, I just pause for a second, maybe take a look around the room and talk about something random and see if that moves me anywhere. But I like to usually just talk about stuff that pops into my head. One thing that girls love to talk about is themselves, don't forget that.
Author:  skills360 [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 6:12 am ]
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Read the book how to win friends and influence people by dale carnagie... Read it...
Author:  EddieFews [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 12:18 pm ]
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Your not exactly lying to yourself, your just convincing yourself to think your life is already exciting.

Excitement is a matter of opinion, one might find playing air hockey exciting, another may disagree

I also wrote a model for why it works, idk if u gave it any real thought.

Because eventually, your thoughts become your actions. Which could be the reason your life lacks so much excitement in the first place
Author:  Haakzter [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 1:35 pm ]
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You need to become as intersting as you are with the people you already have a connection to, with everyone.

As everyone else have said before you, you need to view yourself difrently in order for that to happen. You think you are booring, you become booring. You think you are a looser, you become a looser and so on. People can't read your mind, but they can read your body language. And your body language is based on how you feel, unless you trained yourself to apair difrently.

I sugest standing in front of a mirrior and shout, I am awesome and interesting 100 times. Eventually you will start believing it.

You are not lying to yourself, you are stating a fact most people havn't seen in you, YET.
Author:  charblad [ Tue Aug 16, 2011 2:36 pm ]
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Go out and do exciting things then. Go rock climbing, shooting, camping, snow trekking, desert walking. If it's a problem to do these then you obviously don't have time to do PUA anyways, if you don't show a girl you have time for simple fun things that take 30 mins, how does she expect to live her life with you?
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