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| Author: | pua300 [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 3:46 am ] |
| Post subject: | Sisters best friend, need help! |
Ok guys ill try to keep it short but this might take long still. Ok ill start at the begening. My sisters best friend was like 15 yrs old when i was 25 yrs old so i always saw her as a kid and my sisters best friend so off limit, althou i thought she was a cute girl. Anyways she always had a crush on me i could tell and even my sister told me, she was always shy/nervous around me. So one day i realized that its better i give some girl like her a chance instead of all the strange lame girls i would go out with even from online dating. Figured thru social network you would know the person way more and trust them etc. By the way my sister was practicly begging me to hook up with her bf and also my whole family liked her and wished we would hook up and even get married one day lol. Ok so she would come over to hang with my sister but not to often so i always felt weird about trying to hit on her etc so i dont freak her out and mess up there friendship so i kept it more like friend zone kinda deal oh and im 9 yrs older then her.. But i hung out with them sometimes played pool,table tennis,movie,etc. By the way she still seemed shy etc. I mean we had laughs etc but she seemed shy always. Ok one day she was over i decided screw it ima be real with her and let her know i like her, no games no bs because i respect her and shes my sisters bf so lol.by the way shes a good girl as in dont lose virginity till marriage type.And shes 20 yrsold now.So im looking for a longterm relationship with her not just sex.Ok so i walked her to her car but asked if we can take a walk and chat a bit before she leaves, she said sure. So basically i told her i really liked her and would love to get to know her better. She basically said she just got out of 4 yrs serious relationship and is not rdy to date anyone and prolly not for a long time. And shes like plus i see you as a brother because your my bfs brother. So i acted all understanding even thou what she said hurt and figured she isnt rdy so ill leave her alone but i told her we should keep in touch. ok so like around a year has passed and lately she was over and i said screw it ima try again and hopefully shes rdy now. Anyways didnt get to talk to her much so i just figured i text her. so texted back and fort awhile , made her laugh alot and things were going great so figured i ask her out. So in text i said basically i think we shoul go out. She basically pulled same crap as before. Im not rdy and wont be rdy for relationship forawhile, im living single life and just wanna get to know u as a friend only. Either way i didnt take it offensive and made her laugh some more and said i still think we should go out so then she said this- lol ur cute um... ill think about it cuz its kinda weird your my bfs brother. So i was like - lol oh boy here goes another 10 yrs. She laughe again. Anyways so figured shes turning or might so ill leave her alone so she can think and maybe text her another day.then figured i talk to my sister and make sure shes cool with it and she is 100% so i texted the girl that my sister is cool with us going out and actually will be happy if we do lol. So after that she pulled same crap, worst thing she said was the brother thing, that she sees me as a brother and there is nothing to think about and she only wants to get to know me as a friend and nothing more.so i got mad and texted her something like u know what i would think u would atleast try but whatever im done trying i wont bother u no more, take care. so next day i cooled off and figured i apoligize to her and just act like friends and maybe she will turn later. so supposably now we are just friends and my family is invited to her sisters wedding in like 2 weeks so ima go even thou i kinda dont want to cause im mad at her. Anyways sorry its so long i prolly missed somethings but pretty much got it all. SO i think i did alot of stupid things specially by not playing games and being all honest with her etc. I think i screwed up any chance i may of had but maybe u guys can help somehow i dunno. And maybe if i play it cool at wedding and dance with her something will change in her, i dunno. so tell me what u guys think i really like her and just mostly wanna go out once to even see how much i really like her, but if things work out i would be down to even marry her someday. oh also after a few days passed i was gonna go hiking in the mtns so i asked if she wanted to join me on the hike on saturday, she respoded saying- sorry i have to many things to do on saturday. so i said- its ok np another time. havent talked to her since and i figure i shoulnd prolly till i see her at wedding. Also i think i should of asked her out in person instead of stupid text but its done with now. Ok guys so any help/info will be appreicated thanks in advance. If you have any questions just let me know. |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 9:38 am ] |
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She. Sees. You. As. A. Brother. If that hasn't turned you off already, God help you. I mean, for the love of God, just be done with her, man. She is being polite and rejecting you again and again. How long will it take to get the message:She is not interested. As simple as that. |
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| Author: | pua300 [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 4:15 pm ] |
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Yea ive come to that conclusion too even thou i know shes had a crush on me for years but maybe now she does really see me just as a brother. But remember she was in a 4 yrs relationship so shes prolly all messed up in the head and she told me herself that she hasnt seen anyone, she's gone out with a guy here and there but just 1 date and done. Guees the other thing that was bugging me was that we all know some girls play hard to get. Some girls never say yes to u the first time, sometimes u gotta pursue and try again so she sees u really are interested. So guees thats what got me all messed up i wasnt sure if shes being honest like she says or was playing hard to get or was just confused etc lol. Either way thx appreciate your point of view. Im gonna just be friends and not get my hopes up or nothing. If she someday sees be different and im single maybe ill give it a go but then again plenty of fish out there so... |
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