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Author:  safety [ Sun Aug 14, 2011 2:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Do I only want her bcoz I can't have her?
So basically I broke up with a girl who was my oneitis before we dated for a year and a half. After we broke up we continued to fuck, I felt bad as to the fact that I was using her, but then she told me she didn't want it any more.
Now, she is all I think about. If I had her back would I still feel this attached?
Or is it a case of I want what I cant have?
It so confusing. I hate it.
What the fuck do I do?
Author:  Tidy [ Sun Aug 14, 2011 2:57 pm ]
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Yes. I've been in this exact situation before. Don't get back with her. in fact stop fucking her altogether. When I was in this situation we DID get back together and it didn't work, we ended up arguing a lot and shit. We eventually realised that we wern't meant for each other and split.

You can skip the shit part and move on, trust me there are other chicks out there.
Author:  James The Third [ Sun Aug 14, 2011 3:42 pm ]
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The only reason you guys fucked after you broke up is because it was a sexual fantasy, because it was "wrong". We´ve all been there.

After a while of living this fantasy, the sex got a little too familiar and you started acting relationshippy. She was only interested in the sexual fantasy with you, so she ended it.

Post break-up sex can be great cause it feels so naughty, but it can also make the break-up even tougher if you invest any kind of emotion in it.


Yes, you only want her because you can´t get her. And you know it :)
Author:  skills360 [ Sun Aug 14, 2011 5:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Do I only want her bcoz I can't have her?
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So basically I broke up with a girl who was my oneitis before we dated for a year and a half. After we broke up we continued to fuck, I felt bad as to the fact that I was using her, but then she told me she didn't want it any more.
Now, she is all I think about. If I had her back would I still feel this attached?
Or is it a case of I want what I cant have?
It so confusing. I hate it.
What the fuck do I do?


This is typically what happens after the break up, most of the time the emotional pain is to hard to go cold turkey, so you do have sex couple of times, just like a smoker trying to quit, smokes 5 cigarettes, then 3, then 1, is hard to stop cold turkey...Yes you want her back cause, now she is back to being a challenge...But just move on.. Also remember Rocks vs gold, women want rocks, wonderful nights out, romantic attention, emotional connection, men want gold(sex), if you are only giving gold to women, or women just getting rocks, you are going to be unhappy.... Now she is giving you Gold, you ain't giving her Rocks...
Author:  safety [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 1:56 am ]
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You guys are all right. And i know you're right. The only reason I even asked was because I wanted assurance.
It's just fucking hard. I just have to focus on meeting newer funner girls. Is that what you would suggest?
Author:  Don Draper [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 9:45 am ]
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Something about how we go after those things which go away from us.
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