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| Author: | Gabriel Belmont [ Sun Aug 14, 2011 7:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Help after Day 2 Fclose; how long should I wait? |
I met this girl, a HB9, and we met for a "date" after she'd been texting me about it for a couple of days. We were supposed to go for an outdoor date in some nice park, but she wasn't even near being ready when I got there, so she told me to come up in her apartment instead of waiting outside. Her hair was still wet and she said she needed still about 15 minutes before being ready. Long story short, she was very playful (had me smell her hair because I was ridiculing how much she paid for her shampoo) and we had a very fast kino escalation leading to us not even making it out the door and spending the afternoon making out and having sex. I left her apt and we engaged in some enjoyable texting during the evening. She kept saying I still owed her a date, that she had a good time and that she doesn't usually act so spontaneously. Looks to me like a job well done on my part, but now comes the weakest part of my game: how long do I wait before calling her back? I obviously had a great time and I can say I think she did too. I don't want to look too needy though. I saw her Friday, so I figured I should at least let the weekend pass. Should I wait for her to call me back or should I initiate contact early next week? Your help is appreciated. |
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| Author: | Don Draper [ Sun Aug 14, 2011 8:13 am ] |
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Why the wait? Obviously, she is in a good place in her head, when she thinks of you. At this point, you need to be in constant contact and cement her associated of a great time with you. |
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| Author: | Fvckitimout [ Sun Aug 14, 2011 10:55 am ] |
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Depends on what you want. If fwb only text her if you are planning on inviting her out. If you start texting her everyday where you both talk about your entire day and how she feels, how you feel bla bla bla aka she expects to talk to you everyday thats going to give her the impression of a relationship. But then again i know you just wanted to brag about this, dont lie ;D. Kudos good job keep it up and keep sarging. |
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| Author: | Maddog124 [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 3:09 am ] |
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ya i wouldnt wait more than a day or so, if have emotional connection go for it.... |
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| Author: | Gabriel Belmont [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 3:13 am ] |
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I wasn't bragging (well not that much :-p) I do know the strengths and weaknesses of my game and while I tend to close easily, I always have problems deciding what to do after closing. I always fear I'll appear needy if I text her too soon or that she'll get pissed if I wait too long. I usually just wing it and keep it going if it's playful like with that girl or wait a day or two before re-initiating contact with her. More often then not, I either hear back from her first or come up with something playful to explain why I waited. I'm still pretty bad at this part, any thoughts? |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Mon Aug 15, 2011 4:00 am ] |
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After a lay,girls always pull that BS about never doing that before(ONS and spontaneous stuff). When should you get bacc to her? I agree with Don Draper. But as Fuccitimout said,it depends on what you want. Contacting her ASAP signifies you maybe interested in an LTR. If you just want her as a fb(fuck buddy);contact her to hang out(fuck)again in a day or two. But please dont rush into an LTR with any girl. Play it safe and dont let her draw you into an emotional conncetion that you dont want. Guys tend to read girls the wrong way. This girl totally seems like a one-night or a fuck-buddy. She's not relationship material. Not because she slept with you so soon. But her vibe. If you enter an LTR with this gir(pre-maturely)l,she will cheat on you. Why? She doesnt want an emotional connection(relationship).No matter wha she says to you.Her actions prove otherwise that she's just a fling. So,treat it as just that-a fling. Send her a text day or so after. No lovy-dubby shit. In fact,it doesnt matter when you contact her. But what you say. Text her with coolness. That would indicate to her that you're just into the sex. You contact here with tuff like this,"Hey Im just thinking of you and how much I enjoy the sex and it was lovely". Stuff like that would send her fleeing from you(since she's not looking for that). Contact(text)her only to hook up again. No fuccing date,which would only lead to an LTR.Unless it's what you're looking for(which would be stupid and this point). |
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