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Author:  Mindgamez [ Sat Aug 13, 2011 1:47 am ]
Post subject:  I practiced with the wrong girls...
Hey guys,
I just practiced texting with 2 girls, and I went to the point where they think about going sexual. I am not attracted to them and I don't wish to have any relationship with any of those 2 girls... I just wanted to practice to get better, you know. I felt more comfortable doing it to girls I knew than to complete strangers.

How should I say no kindly? Because I went pretty far, they might get sad and if I deny them, they'll see me as a bad person or something (one of them is kind of my friend and loosing her would be not fun). I don't know if any of you guys ever had a situation like this.

Thanks...
Author:  Tidy [ Sat Aug 13, 2011 1:52 am ]
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Depends on the convo I guess, and on your exact words. If you ever lies and said you were interested then you're just going to have to hurt them. There's not much else you can do. This is the exact reason I just went straight in to the field and "practiced" on girls I didn't really know.
Author:  TheFreshPrince [ Sat Aug 13, 2011 5:09 am ]
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Unless they're really unattractive, why not take them up on it?

Did they offer directly? If not, just stop the sexual flirtation.
Author:  Kalel [ Sat Aug 13, 2011 5:55 am ]
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You shouldn't practice on friends. You are playing with their emotions and women are purely emotional creatures. It's not worth losing a friend, just to see if your text game is good.

The reason you tried game on your friends first, is because you were worried that your game wouldn't work. So now that you know that it does, go out and use it on women that you actually want to pursue, and don't make the mistake of gaming your friends again.

That being said, you are going to have to play it by ear. I don't know what you texted your friends, but if you've gotten into their heads, you are simply going to have to wait and see how much you've changed your relationship with them. Hopefully, they didn't take you too seriously and you haven't messed anything up. Most likely if you do not continue gaming them, they will forget about the text messages and you can simply move on from there. But there is no way of knowing how they will react to you in the future, until you interact with them further.
Author:  gabi4play [ Sat Aug 13, 2011 7:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: I practiced with the wrong girls...
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Hey guys,
I just practiced texting with 2 girls, and I went to the point where they think about going sexual. I am not attracted to them and I don't wish to have any relationship with any of those 2 girls... I just wanted to practice to get better, you know. I felt more comfortable doing it to girls I knew than to complete strangers.

How should I say no kindly? Because I went pretty far, they might get sad and if I deny them, they'll see me as a bad person or something (one of them is kind of my friend and loosing her would be not fun). I don't know if any of you guys ever had a situation like this.

Thanks...
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Author:  Mindgamez [ Sat Aug 13, 2011 1:11 pm ]
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You shouldn't practice on friends. You are playing with their emotions and women are purely emotional creatures. It's not worth losing a friend, just to see if your text game is good.

The reason you tried game on your friends first, is because you were worried that your game wouldn't work. So now that you know that it does, go out and use it on women that you actually want to pursue, and don't make the mistake of gaming your friends again.

That being said, you are going to have to play it by ear. I don't know what you texted your friends, but if you've gotten into their heads, you are simply going to have to wait and see how much you've changed your relationship with them. Hopefully, they didn't take you too seriously and you haven't messed anything up. Most likely if you do not continue gaming them, they will forget about the text messages and you can simply move on from there. But there is no way of knowing how they will react to you in the future, until you interact with them further.
Thank you for your advices guys! And Kalel especially :) you are right.
Author:  Rye Lee [ Sat Aug 13, 2011 8:38 pm ]
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You shouldn't practice on friends. You are playing with their emotions and women are purely emotional creatures. It's not worth losing a friend, just to see if your text game is good.

The reason you tried game on your friends first, is because you were worried that your game wouldn't work. So now that you know that it does, go out and use it on women that you actually want to pursue, and don't make the mistake of gaming your friends again.

That being said, you are going to have to play it by ear. I don't know what you texted your friends, but if you've gotten into their heads, you are simply going to have to wait and see how much you've changed your relationship with them. Hopefully, they didn't take you too seriously and you haven't messed anything up. Most likely if you do not continue gaming them, they will forget about the text messages and you can simply move on from there. But there is no way of knowing how they will react to you in the future, until you interact with them further.
Thank you for your advices guys! And Kalel especially :) you are right.
Kalel: you always give great advice! Ever think about applying to be a Moderator? I'm talking to the other Mods about bringing in some more people with less responsibilities and demands and I've always respected your stuff if you are interested in being considered?

Mindgamez: Kalel is right, although I would say that if you're just not attracted to them in a relationship sense, then it might not hurt to have a casual thing with them in order to continue in a comfortable type of situation. I personally don't have "relationships" although I tend to sleep with many of the girls that I'm friends with; sometimes friendship comes after, sometimes first, but either way I consider all the girls I'm with my friends and not girlfriends.

If not, then perhaps being completely honest about your feelings of shyness and wanting to overcome that by seeing if you could improve your interactions with girls and you didn't mean to seduce them that way, yet that it accidentally happened and you'd like to just remain friends. Girls do that one all the time, I do it whenever I accidentally mislead a girl who I'm not attracted to because I'm a very openly sexual person and lots of people think that means that I'm interested in them even when I'm not.
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