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Author:  VLCOSENT [ Thu Aug 11, 2011 10:15 pm ]
Post subject:  When the GF ask about a different girl, what do you say?
I'm doing a LDR and I'm continuing to keep in touch and make new friends, who just happen to be girls ;-), and when my GF ask "who are those other girls I hear in the background?" or "Who is that girl who wrote on your FB wall?" How do I respond without sounding like a total dweeb but not sound arrogant at the same time?

I like this GF, want to keep it going, wouldn't cheat, but always want to keep talking to other girls.

Any suggestions gentlemen?
Author:  H!j!nx [ Thu Aug 11, 2011 11:00 pm ]
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"A friend of mine." If she presses for information, stress that if this is going to work you need trust on her side. If just making new friends is enough to make her insecure, the relationship is not going to be what it could be. Also, make special comments on her wall to let her know she's separate from the rest. . .
Author:  VLCOSENT [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 1:30 am ]
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Ok, but what if she turns around and starts "Talking" to other guys and then says without me bringing it up, "well you talk to all sorts of girls." Should I play Alpha and dont even ask about the other guys or bring it up in a non confrontational frame and explain these girls really are just my friends, you need to trust me?

Thanks again!
Author:  Kuja [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 1:43 am ]
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Ok, but what if she turns around and starts "Talking" to other guys and then says without me bringing it up, "well you talk to all sorts of girls." Should I play Alpha and dont even ask about the other guys or bring it up in a non confrontational frame and explain these girls really are just my friends, you need to trust me?

Thanks again!
She most likely will eventually start doing that to make you jelous but judging by what I've read from your post she most likely can be trusted. Act 100% like it doesn't bother you for the win.
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 4:33 am ]
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Ok, but what if she turns around and starts "Talking" to other guys and then says without me bringing it up, "well you talk to all sorts of girls." Should I play Alpha and dont even ask about the other guys or bring it up in a non confrontational frame and explain these girls really are just my friends, you need to trust me?

Thanks again!
Don't ask about it. If you're allowed to make female friends, she's allowed to make male friends. If you feel insecure, find a way to talk to her male friends with her in the conversation (SPAM or something is great).
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