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| Author: | newbie6671 [ Tue Aug 09, 2011 2:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help me I never have anything to say! |
I try to talk to girls but I never seem to have anything to say beyond Hello and what do you think about the weather. I don’t have a very interesting life in fact I’m so shy I never made any friends and I have never even kissed a girl let alone talk to one for an extended period of time or have sex with one. That being said I am really trying with everything I got to talk to girls I go up to every girl I find cute and try to talk but I got nothing to say after hello. Please give me a little help here I thank you in advance. |
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| Author: | anthonypham [ Tue Aug 09, 2011 8:31 pm ] |
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hate to say this, but start with canned material. In the beginning it is a bit awkward, but after a while it will become part of your inner game. And don't put too much pressure on yourself. Girls are nothing special, they look hot but they have to poop too 
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| Author: | RePete [ Wed Aug 10, 2011 3:38 am ] |
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Anythony that was priceless man, they have to poop too. awesome stuff |
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| Author: | mpuapua [ Wed Aug 10, 2011 5:06 am ] |
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if you memorize and recite lines you will sound boring and like a robot. if you improvise, she will see your are honest and you will come out funny and lively. i worked at a camp for kids. we had to do skits and perform them in front of the whole camp. we had our lines on a piece of paper and read them. it was boring and awkward! but then other kids just walked onto the stage without a plan and improvised and everyone loved them! i am able to get short conversations with strangers now without scaring them away. at first i scared women away when i talked to them. this is because i did not smile, and because i did not look them in the eye while smiling first, then saying hi how are you and waiting for them to look at me. also, not having the intention of walking up to her or talking to her. if you are walking you say hi how are you? without slowing down and then keep walking past. i imagine women see that you are not going to approach them and it sets them at ease. this sort of being ready to let the woman go thing, rather than trying to grab her for a conversation. or say hi how are you? and smile from a distance and plant your feet and dont move closer to her. i think the most important thing for me is to smile, say hi how are you, and WAIT for her response and observe her. keep still. if she smiles and makes a move to continue talking to you. if she does not say hi back, or look at you, or smile, just give up on her. pursuing her further will just drive her away. but smile, say how are you? and wait for her to say something. if she reacts positively, but does not say much, you might try saying something short, whatever pops into your mind at that time or whatever you are curious about her, or you can give her a light compliment (but dont expect anything back). if she does not reply, give up on her. if she replies, agree with whatever she says. if she says "i come here to see my friends" i might agree by saying "it's a good reason to come here - to see your friends" i am still an AFC but this is my technique after a year of working on this and it has worked best for me, i am still not getting good convos with women, but i am not scaring them away anymore! and it's getting better.. |
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| Author: | mpuapua [ Wed Aug 10, 2011 5:10 am ] |
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try to go to classes or events where you naturally rub shoulders with women and you can give them compliments, make small talk, and try to flirt. this will help you develop pro social skills. going to up to strangers, is extremely hard, and it will freak most people out, and while you should do it because it is a perfectly legitimate way of meeting people, i am afraid that the rejection rate might demoralizing. |
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