| PUA Forum https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/ |
|
| How to act Alpha\pua around your friends. https://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=98331 |
Page 1 of 1 |
| Author: | mavarickpuarookie22 [ Tue Aug 09, 2011 7:54 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to act Alpha\pua around your friends. |
They know you, so setting a different frame around them all the sudden comes off odd. If you all go to a party I feel like if I set a Alpha Frame I wont be taken seriously. Normally I let them lead. There usually right and older(24). Im younger (20) and impulsive. Lets just go do it. But then my leaders dont want to back me up so I sit around and wait for them to come up with an idea. Is the only way to change the frame is not to be afraid to lose them in a conflict of intreasts? At the same time they are complety comfortable flirting with women because they have had success with women in the past witch turns into confidence for them. I have never even had a date. So I've watched them to see whats ok, but feel like I wouldn't be able to pull it off as smoothly. Thats something all my friends have on me. Odd because they are all players and I'am all of there best friend. Yet I cant get laid. For some reason I feel like touching women is awkward(like they are part of a museum) Some of my friends DHV come off as bragging to me. I laugh at them, but the girl isnt laughing at them. Am I jsut enabling him? My self esteem is tied to my freinds happiness for whatever reason. If there not happy im not happy. So I bust my ass keeping them entertained while I'm having fun and they are. Im not happy. Every time they have walked away with the girl. I have never. Should I try to sarge without any of my friends. Only times I'm compelty confident is in a fight (absouilty no fear, excitement is better word) or something I've been doing a long time. Thanks for any help PUAS! |
|
| Page 1 of 1 | All times are UTC |
| Powered by phpBB® Forum Software © phpBB Group http://www.phpbb.com/ |
|