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Author:  CallieJay [ Mon Aug 08, 2011 12:06 am ]
Post subject:  Easy but serious question
I'm curious. this should be a pretty simple question.
So let's say you're "gaming" a girl - you want to bring her to bed. Would you consider it a rejection if a girl didn't want to sleep with you?

I know that seems like a dumb question, but let me elaborate. suppose you are only interested in sex, but you, for whatever reason, aren't interested in making it a relationship. And suppose the girl simply isn't into sex outside of a relationship. Would you still consider that a rejection?
Author:  M2 [ Mon Aug 08, 2011 12:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Easy but serious question
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I'm curious. this should be a pretty simple question.
So let's say you're "gaming" a girl - you want to bring her to bed. Would you consider it a rejection if a girl didn't want to sleep with you?

I know that seems like a dumb question, but let me elaborate. suppose you are only interested in sex, but you, for whatever reason, aren't interested in making it a relationship. And suppose the girl simply isn't into sex outside of a relationship. Would you still consider that a rejection?
Why exactly is it just about sex? Are you pulling women you just don't like that much? Also, why burn a bridge you took the time to build. She might have hot friends you didn't know about. Get back to me.
Author:  CallieJay [ Mon Aug 08, 2011 12:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Easy but serious question
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I'm curious. this should be a pretty simple question.
So let's say you're "gaming" a girl - you want to bring her to bed. Would you consider it a rejection if a girl didn't want to sleep with you?

I know that seems like a dumb question, but let me elaborate. suppose you are only interested in sex, but you, for whatever reason, aren't interested in making it a relationship. And suppose the girl simply isn't into sex outside of a relationship. Would you still consider that a rejection?
Why exactly is it just about sex? Are you pulling women you just don't like that much? Also, why burn a bridge you took the time to build. She might have hot friends you didn't know about. Get back to me.
Well I am actually a girl, so it's not me who is trying this! I am asking guys. I actually don't know why a guy would do that, but it seems like it does happen! Like they just want gratification or something, or to get over their ex. who knows! but my question is, if they try that with a girl that simply is looking for a boyfriend and doesn't want to have "just sex", would that guy feel rejected?
:)
Author:  Otaru [ Mon Aug 08, 2011 12:30 am ]
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No publicity is bad publicity.

No sex does not mean no experience. I can assure you that even the world's top PUAs get rejections. It's all a numbers game, they game another girl who is more willing to have sex without the relationship.

I'm not sure if they see it as a rejection but one of the things master PUAs teach is being rejected. Once someone is use to rejection, they keep going until the numbers is on his side.

Answer mine? I would love a female perspective. It's titled "Epically lost and confused with this girl."
Author:  M2 [ Mon Aug 08, 2011 12:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Easy but serious question
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Well I am actually a girl,
:)
Haha, why am I not surprised? I knew you women were out there lurking trying to find our "secrets", look at our little stalker!!!

To be honest not all PUA are the same, my views are going to differ from some of my brethren. A younger, or, more immature man would pull something like that. You can see them by their lack of self discipline or the inability to delay gratification. When I was younger I did. I am not proud of it but, it happens. So does Karma. Some men might reject, some would just keep working. Some will lie and then leave you and some (a PUA) will make you work just as hard as he works. (if he is good you won't even know he is working) A man of value will not give everything to you at the beginning and not ask that you give everything to him.

One of the main sticking points to this whole philosophy in here is to leave you better than we found you.

To be frank your most powerful asset as a woman is between your legs. If a man rejects you because you won't sleep with him then he is a poor excuse for space. There is a give and take with seduction and you both have to earn it.

This is not the case if both parties agree that it is just sex. However, be careful with rejection. The male ego can be a fragile thing and you can quite easily send him running for the door with a few poorly worded sentences, in that case you've hurt him and he won't come back.

Now stop stalking! Haha
Author:  TheFreshPrince [ Mon Aug 08, 2011 2:45 pm ]
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I would not consider it a rejection. The woman has moral convictions about something, and I'm cool with that. But I would say most guys would feel it was a rejection, especially if they were not confident in themselves, which many guys are not. M2 is right. Mos guys have a pretty fragile ego...
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