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Author:  safety [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 8:25 am ]
Post subject:  girl is hot and cold. what to do?
ok so basically, friday night i get replies from txts i send almost instantly and she uses alot of nicknames etc.

saturday she was really into the messages i was sending her, sending me long replies with plenty of exclamation and question marks. then she didnt reply to a msg for about 5 hours and then i get one apologising for her late reply because she was working etc and going back into rapport building.

then today it went like this
safety: knock, knock.
HB: (45mins later) who's there?
safety: its me, safety :)
HB: wow!
safety: hey, dont be rude. use ur manners.
HB: i was surprised to c u there
safety:oh, wel i shud hav let you kno i was goin to be knocking. anyway i was going to ask you to help me with something but dw daniel helped me out.

now i havent gotten a reply. i know i didnt give her much to reply to but it's still annoying that she seemed almost too interested yesterday but now im getting nothing. i mean i know she could be busy, odds are she is working, and maybe she is in a bad mood? but i am wondering where to go from here?

i initiated all of those conversations buut on friday and saturday they lasted hours and were fun and interesting wher today it was shit. do i freeze her out? blow it off like i dont care? idk opinions?
Author:  safety [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 9:18 am ]
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she ended up replying about two hours later
HB: what did you need help with?
safety:curing my boredom! i was goin to ask if u wanted to watch entourage tonight but im on my way to the gym now.
HB:thats a dandy way to cure boredom.

i didnt wait to reply because i think she is catching onto the fact that i wait to reply and that would look afc.
im just not going to reply. figure she is probably busy or in a bad mood and i dont want her thinkin about me when she is in a bad mood (and anchoring me trying to build rapport to her bad mood). i will send her a goodnight txt in a few hours.
Author:  LyricalDream [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 3:04 pm ]
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You're are using rather blank bullets to fill the void. Why not use real ones?

Show what you want from her and escalate a bit.. she's asking for it aswel.

Don't beat the bush too much.. soon, you got no more bush to beat at.

~LD
Author:  ProfessorX [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 5:09 pm ]
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Stop playing text games. Call her and tell her you want to hang out.
Author:  Don Draper [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 5:20 pm ]
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I think at this point it's very important for you to understand that if you want something substantial with her, you need to start talking about substantial things. No more "knock knock jokes" but important, deeper things (like attraction) and also, texting seems like a good idea but only when you cannot talk to her, in voice or in person.

Call her already.
Author:  EddieFews [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 7:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: girl is hot and cold. what to do?
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safety:oh, wel i shud hav let you kno i was goin to be knocking. anyway i was going to ask you to help me with something but dw daniel helped me out.


Hey I was going to reply to this post, but i had to use the bathroom instead

why are you telling her wat you were going to do? i wouldnt of reponded to that either.

Have present time conversations, dont make her feel empty by bring her into your unpleasent past.

And never seem bored while dealing with girls. You always have something else to do but your "choosing" to hang out with her at this time.
Author:  safety [ Mon Aug 08, 2011 1:50 am ]
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Yea ealise I was supplicating to her with that last message too. I'm just going to tart being more real with the girl, I have enough comfort with her that I don't Ned to
Play stupid games anyway.
I just want a way to come across interesting in txts if that makes sense?
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