PUA Forum :: White guys going abroad and finding love, can others do this

So I hear so much about how White males (American or European) can go to Asian or Latin American countries and basically have women crawling over them and chasing them left to right. They can live the life of sleeping with lots of women there and such.

Can other men imitate such success.

Like say an Indian, Black, Asian, or Brown guy goes to Colombia, can he have the same success with the ladies as a White guy can?

you don't know the first thing about Latin America, being White is seen as a gift there

also, what if the non-White male is from a first world country? you don't seem to know too much about the question at hand

this whole thread is total crap ...

it's just a excuse to justify failure , instead of looking to their game or approach they just blame their looks , nationality or culture in general.

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Perhaps, but look at it this way dude, while being a White male might be a gift there, it's only a "gift" i.e, an added incentive, it's not like if you aren't White over there, you are handicapped, you can even out the odds by adding some incentives of your own, don't you think.

Also, if some girl thinks that just being White you are better and being non White you are lesser, screw her, move on to a better and more refined one. If the non White male is from a first world country, you definitely have an advantage. Again, see it's like this, it's not really the skin color that the woman might be obsessed about, she could perhaps have attached a few qualities to the "White" skin colored male, if a non White male happens to possess those qualities that she deems attractive, I would find it rather hard for any woman who has some degree of common sense to outright deny the company of such a person, if she indeed does, then it's apparent that she doesn't have any common sense, you would go no where with such a specimen anyway.

If someone says she only dates White men because of the love towards the skin color or blue eyes, etc etc, you can't do anything, just move on and find a different girl. But I found out through personal experience that most women aren't particular to that degree, I was in Brazil for 3 weeks dude, I will narrate my personal experience if you want, I never had any issues meeting very nice women there, they in fact were very interested in me and I thought one of them was even flirting with me, although regretfully I didn't do anything about it back then. I had a great time there, nothing negative of the sort you mentioned.

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please do narrate

Author:	Paramount21 [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 8:28 pm ]
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So I hear so much about how White males (American or European) can go to Asian or Latin American countries and basically have women crawling over them and chasing them left to right. They can live the life of sleeping with lots of women there and such. Can other men imitate such success. Like say an Indian, Black, Asian, or Brown guy goes to Colombia, can he have the same success with the ladies as a White guy can?

Author:	Lodewijkp [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 10:56 pm ]
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this whole thread is total crap ... it's just a excuse to justify failure , instead of looking to their game or approach they just blame their looks , nationality or culture in general. alot of people have stupid ideas - really stupid pre-conceptions. i have a mixed look but it never affected me or my game. in poor 3th world countries you get alot of woman because the woman think you are rich .'' hey .. a european white guy , he must be rich '' i don't need to travel to backwaters to meet golddiggers ... i can meet those type of people in my local bar or club.

Author:	thelenzel [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 12:59 am ]
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Is this thread for real?? OP must be no older than 17

Author:	Paramount21 [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 2:16 am ]
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actually I am 19 and really interested in dating foreign women

Author:	diabloeasy [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 2:45 am ]
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Honestly, there is some legitimacy to the inquiry. I know I'm a newb to the forum, but I am well traveled, so please allow me this small comment. The fact is racism is much more common in many other countries. Because they have a greater majority of a single ethnicity, their xenophobia is a little more acceptable. It is especially true in Asia that white men are often adored. That being said, the variable is not so great as to be a concern. If there is something about a particular ethnicity you find appealing, you will be able to pick such a woman up.

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Author:	kalaripayattu [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 12:40 pm ]
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Quote: So I hear so much about how White males (American or European) can go to Asian or Latin American countries and basically have women crawling over them and chasing them left to right. They can live the life of sleeping with lots of women there and such. Can other men imitate such success. Like say an Indian, Black, Asian, or Brown guy goes to Colombia, can he have the same success with the ladies as a White guy can? Most White men I see going to Asian countries usually go to Thailand or Philippines are usually one's that can't find success in their own nations or older divorced men with some money to throw around, a lot of women in those countries are actually looking for a one way ticket to USA since they want to make it big, so they are often willing to show interest in White guys since they are their ticket to USA and of course their way to a Green Card here too. Not saying all are this way, but a lot of them are this way, atleast the ones that display an unusual interest in White men back in Asia. I have not seen many Latin American drooling over White American men, Latin American culture is more traditional and conservative when it comes to dating, so most of them would rather date one of their own, that said, some of them are the same way as the Asian women described above, and so would be willing to seduce a White guy for the benefits they would reap in the form of wealth, social status, better standard of living in a first world country, etc etc. The same can't be true of non White men, since they have got more negatives against them than positives, and since most of them aren't from the first world countries, most Asian or Latin American women don't see any material benefit in dating them.

Author:	safety [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 3:33 pm ]
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You have made alot of posts about your ethnicity paramount. Stop it. It's clear you want us to justify your hopes that you can have the same success as white guys. The only real way for you to justify that is to do it! everyone is jealous of what they don't have, but just because you are Indian doesn't mean you will automatically be shunned by women. I have been working on my leg muscles in the gym for the last two months in hopes that I, safety, a 5'9" white man will be able to dunk a basketball. I wasn't born 6'10" and black but I am still going to try. The moral of the story is get off your computer, go out and even if you have to make this your opener, go talk to people. Otherwise you will spend the Next 6 months on your computer asking us if you can do it because you are not white?! Before you give up. Besides what makes you think white guys are so good with women? I'd guess 90% of puas are white. Why would we be looking for help if we were so naturally gifted?!

Author:	Paramount21 [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 3:54 pm ]
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you don't know the first thing about Latin America, being White is seen as a gift there also, what if the non-White male is from a first world country? you don't seem to know too much about the question at hand

Author:	Lodewijkp [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 5:07 pm ]
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Quote: you don't know the first thing about Latin America, being White is seen as a gift there also, what if the non-White male is from a first world country? you don't seem to know too much about the question at hand then why don't you paint yourself white.. hell i got a bucket of bleech in my kitchen i can do it for you. if a narrow down your thread .. it says something like .'' if you are black or latin you freakin suck balls .. if are white you are better '' ?

Author:	kalaripayattu [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 7:23 pm ]
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Quote: you don't know the first thing about Latin America, being White is seen as a gift there also, what if the non-White male is from a first world country? you don't seem to know too much about the question at hand Perhaps, but look at it this way dude, while being a White male might be a gift there, it's only a "gift" i.e, an added incentive, it's not like if you aren't White over there, you are handicapped, you can even out the odds by adding some incentives of your own, don't you think. Also, if some girl thinks that just being White you are better and being non White you are lesser, screw her, move on to a better and more refined one. If the non White male is from a first world country, you definitely have an advantage. Again, see it's like this, it's not really the skin color that the woman might be obsessed about, she could perhaps have attached a few qualities to the "White" skin colored male, if a non White male happens to possess those qualities that she deems attractive, I would find it rather hard for any woman who has some degree of common sense to outright deny the company of such a person, if she indeed does, then it's apparent that she doesn't have any common sense, you would go no where with such a specimen anyway. If someone says she only dates White men because of the love towards the skin color or blue eyes, etc etc, you can't do anything, just move on and find a different girl. But I found out through personal experience that most women aren't particular to that degree, I was in Brazil for 3 weeks dude, I will narrate my personal experience if you want, I never had any issues meeting very nice women there, they in fact were very interested in me and I thought one of them was even flirting with me, although regretfully I didn't do anything about it back then. I had a great time there, nothing negative of the sort you mentioned.

Author:	zappo [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 7:53 pm ]
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Quote: this whole thread is total crap ... it's just a excuse to justify failure , instead of looking to their game or approach they just blame their looks , nationality or culture in general. This x 100

Author:	Paramount21 [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 8:35 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: you don't know the first thing about Latin America, being White is seen as a gift there also, what if the non-White male is from a first world country? you don't seem to know too much about the question at hand Perhaps, but look at it this way dude, while being a White male might be a gift there, it's only a "gift" i.e, an added incentive, it's not like if you aren't White over there, you are handicapped, you can even out the odds by adding some incentives of your own, don't you think. Also, if some girl thinks that just being White you are better and being non White you are lesser, screw her, move on to a better and more refined one. If the non White male is from a first world country, you definitely have an advantage. Again, see it's like this, it's not really the skin color that the woman might be obsessed about, she could perhaps have attached a few qualities to the "White" skin colored male, if a non White male happens to possess those qualities that she deems attractive, I would find it rather hard for any woman who has some degree of common sense to outright deny the company of such a person, if she indeed does, then it's apparent that she doesn't have any common sense, you would go no where with such a specimen anyway. If someone says she only dates White men because of the love towards the skin color or blue eyes, etc etc, you can't do anything, just move on and find a different girl. But I found out through personal experience that most women aren't particular to that degree, I was in Brazil for 3 weeks dude, I will narrate my personal experience if you want, I never had any issues meeting very nice women there, they in fact were very interested in me and I thought one of them was even flirting with me, although regretfully I didn't do anything about it back then. I had a great time there, nothing negative of the sort you mentioned. please do narrate

Author:	kalaripayattu [ Sat Aug 06, 2011 10:03 pm ]
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Quote: Quote: Quote: you don't know the first thing about Latin America, being White is seen as a gift there also, what if the non-White male is from a first world country? you don't seem to know too much about the question at hand Perhaps, but look at it this way dude, while being a White male might be a gift there, it's only a "gift" i.e, an added incentive, it's not like if you aren't White over there, you are handicapped, you can even out the odds by adding some incentives of your own, don't you think. Also, if some girl thinks that just being White you are better and being non White you are lesser, screw her, move on to a better and more refined one. If the non White male is from a first world country, you definitely have an advantage. Again, see it's like this, it's not really the skin color that the woman might be obsessed about, she could perhaps have attached a few qualities to the "White" skin colored male, if a non White male happens to possess those qualities that she deems attractive, I would find it rather hard for any woman who has some degree of common sense to outright deny the company of such a person, if she indeed does, then it's apparent that she doesn't have any common sense, you would go no where with such a specimen anyway. If someone says she only dates White men because of the love towards the skin color or blue eyes, etc etc, you can't do anything, just move on and find a different girl. But I found out through personal experience that most women aren't particular to that degree, I was in Brazil for 3 weeks dude, I will narrate my personal experience if you want, I never had any issues meeting very nice women there, they in fact were very interested in me and I thought one of them was even flirting with me, although regretfully I didn't do anything about it back then. I had a great time there, nothing negative of the sort you mentioned. please do narrate Okay, here it goes, I was a good friends with one guy from Brazil during my undergrad in Spain, and he was getting married earlier this year, so I took a 3 week vacation to go attend his marriage, it was in the Southern beach place of Florianópolis, now I didn't really expect anything before I went there except of course meeting my old friend and wishing him good luck on his marriage. I learnt some Portuguese long before I left just to make sure that I wouldn't be totally lost there in case no one spoke English. So I used to live there in my friends guest house along with a bunch of his relatives and other friends, including some men as well as women, now a lot of these women were single women and very approachable, a lot of them were curious about where I came from because I looked "different" from everyone else and hence I was the exotic one there you could say. We used to have a lot of late night parties, sit around the beach a lot and although most of them could speak English, they were very pleasantly surprised when I could speak to them in some Portuguese, most of them were very excited to know that I traveled all the way from US just to attend his marriage(they didn't know I also went there to see the Amazon rain forest), a lot of them complemented me telling me that I was very handsome and that they loved the shade of my skin(dark skinned), the ladies included the traditional Latinas to blue eyed blondes(Brazil has huge diversity in terms of the looks of the people). So there it was, a whole lot of fun, partying, good times all around, did some camping too, I never felt for a second that I would have been treated better had I been White, I don't know, since I am not a White guy, I can't say that for sure, but atleast to me, there was nothing lacking there. One of his cousins took such a crush on me that she even wanted to visit me when she came down to US(as told by my friend), I wish I could have spoken to her more back then, but alas, there's still some hope. And no, it isn't true that they have a negative perception about Indian men or anything like that, I haven't felt that either in Brazil or in Spain or Europe for that matter, I observe this curious phenomena only in US to be very honest.

Author:	zappo [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 12:27 am ]
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Reading this thread in more depth Im getting the impression that this is quite a serious issue to you and im going to actually agree with you to an extent. Their is a coloration between an increase in size zero models and more girls having eating disorders. Most advertising and television will show White people . Their are a number of stupidly dangerous bleaching products out there that are being sold to asian girls who are desperate to look more white.So at first I can see why anyone of coloured background might regard being white as an advantage but its only and advantage if you choose to think that way. Im white myself right , my two wingmen are chinese , they pull as many girls as i do but the fact is they stand out in the clubs I go to because they dont fit their own stereotype of being nerdy wearing glasses being thin. They speak with my regional accent their up to date with fashion , one of them looks like he's on steroids hes that big and ripped. They belong they get success . Ive never heard a girl deny them because of their skin colour. Its just retarded they fit in their awesome guys. Case study number two theirs this girl ive been gaming I want to maybe get into an LTR with her but shes might be moving citys in a months time. Shes extremely hot and fun ( why else would I want to be getting into an LTR with her Im very very picky ! ) Her only other Bf was an Indian guy , probably one of the darkest skinned Indians I have ever seen. Now am not saying I have a problem with this , Its just where I come from they are the most picked on ethnic group but yanno what I met her ex hes a cool chilled guy hes a good laugh hes picked up the socail norms and the regional accent and it realy makes me prowd to have people like this living amongst myself. The Point Im trying to make is . Skin colour is never an issue . Never .However their will always be the odd few white girls out there that may need a little more pushing than normal but everyones got their own breaking point. Stop making excuses, thats a pussys way out and a pussys excuse

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Author:	Don Draper [ Sun Aug 07, 2011 7:44 am ]
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Paramount21, this is your third thread talking about the same thing. Why can't you just understand that your race or nationality just isn't a factor when you've built enough attraction. I'm mostly Indian too,man. Maybe, a bit more fair compared to the majority, but I still have that eternal tan. It has NEVER stopped me from picking up women anywhere in the world. If you don't care about where you are from, why would she? At the end of the day, you're a man and she's a woman. Everything else are just details. Stop this mindless exercise and start approaching women with confidence. You'll do fine.