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Author:  nightmarian [ Thu Aug 04, 2011 11:41 pm ]
Post subject:  How to text with girls, totally confused :s

I really don't get this...
Basically when I text / talk with girls, and other people, I always try to be creative, and funny as possible... I say stories, tease, and I always somehow lead the conversation...
What confuses me is this 1 chick, well, not only she, I noticed that in many cases, that's the point...
So just to put an example, I can see her texting with another guy, and their conversation is totally boring ( at least it seems to me ), but they keep it for hours.... She also wants to text more with that guy every day...
So I started asking myself am I doing something wrong, should I text like that or what....:s I don't know, maybe I am too big story teller ( texter :D ) ? Maybe I should relax more... Or this chicks are totally stupid ? They are around 16 - 17 years old...


So here is the example of the "stupid" chat :

She:
hellllllo :)

She: im pretty sure you're not replying cuz you're either at the gym or playing football or something. so ill message you in the morningg.
im about to pass out, just got home. nightttt ¦

him : Hey:)

She: hey :))

him : Hi:p

She: whats up? :)

him : Hangin wit john, you??

She: aww :)) how long are you staying at your dads?

him : Till friday and then im going to cali on say

She: awesome!! hope you have fun¦

him : Yaaa:p

She: ahhhhhhh i dontttt wannnna come home! you have no ideaaa how much fun it is here :))))))


him : Why?

She: cuz im with familyy & i actually get to do stufff and not sit at home alll day

him : Cool

She: yupp.

him : Ya

She: ?:))

him : Xp

She: what are you and john talking about? if you're still with him.. haha

him : Games

She: nice :)

him : Yaaa

She: ya

him : Yup

She: what are you gonnna do later? :)

him : Sleep

She: oh yeahh haha sorry i keep thinking its 3 pm over there.. are you tired?

him : ?3am and ya

She: you can go to sleep if you wantt, im gonna have to go in a sec anywayyy

him : I dont wanna

She: okay. are you mad or something?

him : No

She: stop acting like it then

him : Ok

She: yeah


she : you there?
·

she : im gonna go to bed. good night.
·

him : Hey sorry my phone is gay
·

she : hey haha im still here :P
·

him : Okay wannna talk.

she : m tired but sure :) what are you doing?
·
she : im*

him : Talkin, you??

she : to? im talking to my cousin and listening to music
·
him : About? Im talkin to matt n zack

she : american music lol :) what are you guys talking about?
·
him : Music

she : ok
·
him : Yup

she : what are you gonna do laterr?

him : Not sure, you?

she : sleeeeep :)

him : Ok:)))

she : you're so cute :))

him : Why???

she : idk :)·

him : Tell me :) liar hahaha

she : hahaha youuu just are!! & im nottt a liar! :P

him : Message me



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Author:  TheeMikeyK [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 12:18 am ]
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All he is doing is creating suspense by being nonchalant.

Just focus on being you.

Show some interest, but not too much.

Author:  nightmarian [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 1:00 am ]
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Yeah, I am being me... I guess I showed already too much interest, but believe me that guy is showing interest 100x time more...

Maybe I should try showing somehow that I am going away ?

Author:  TheeMikeyK [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 1:16 am ]
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A point of reaching maturity is knowing if the bird has already flown away... catch my drift?

You have to figure out if it's really worth that amount of time/effort.

Don't let it bother you if you think your chance is gone. Chalk it up, self-introspect, and improve upon it for the next girl.

Opportunities with women come when you least expect it, so stay on your toes.

Author:  charblad [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 2:09 am ]
Post subject: 

Quote:
him : Cool
She: yupp.
him : Ya
She: ?)
him : Xp
She: what are you and john talking about? if you're still with him.. haha
him : Games
She: nice
him : Yaaa
She: ya
him : Yup
why did you do this lol
The first sign your not doing well in txt game, well thats it right there ^
Don't just keep saying ya,yaa,yea,ye,yeaa. Read what you wrote and realize "is that all I want to txt/get txted?" not to be rude but work on your txt game.
I agree with theemikey, you need to move on because this girls already screwed up

Author:  nightmarian [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 8:59 am ]
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That's not me, that's the other guy texting with her.... And she likes it... So I am wondering why girls would preffer that kinda conversation over more complex one...

Author:  pumpington [ Fri Aug 05, 2011 9:36 am ]
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ok here is the break down,

this guy gets intrest from her for the following reasons,
1st, he is not seeking rapport with her, she is seeking it with him, he is being a challenge

next in this convo it is very obvious who the person of high value is, he is completely indifferent to her until she is going to break rapport, THEN HEY GUESS WHAT HE DOES, CHASES RAPPORT,

i would guess she shows so much interest in this guy for the following reasons,
1)he is good looking
2)he has alot of friends/ some of her friends like him
3)he has some cool shit


the more indifference he shows the more she will chase, until she comes to a point where she thinks it is pointless and he is just plain not interested, but as long as he tosses a little bait here and there, but stays indifferent this will probably work for him, at some point you need to realize that your not really trying to impress the girl unless she is not impressed, you are screening her, and seeing what she has to offer you, when a girl is high interest you can make her work for it, but it has to seem congruent, or you just come off like your in a bad mood or something

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